A Glass Horse

07/23/2026

Straightness exists between two parallel lines, and peace lives there. Take it with you in everything you do, and you’ll find horses relax significantly.

No horse likes to be mentally and physically out of balance- it is simply good husbandry to show the horse the center.

07/14/2026

Satisfaction and happiness are two very different animals.

If we look at riding as something that is meant to make us happy, we often set ourselves up for frustration and disappointment.

Many of us come to the barn after work looking for an escape. We leave behind the responsibilities of the day, hoping that time with our horse will help us unwind, entertain us, or soothe our stress. In many ways, we unconsciously ask the horse to carry more than our physical weight—we ask him to carry our emotional state as well.

The problem is that when our expectation is for the horse to make us feel better, we stop meeting the moment as it is. Instead of listening, we begin comparing reality to the experience we hoped to have.

The horse is fresh.
The weather changes.
Our body feels stiff.
The horse struggles with balance.
Something doesn’t go according to plan.

Rather than asking, “What is this moment asking of me?” we ask, “Why isn’t this making me feel the way I wanted to feel?”

When our riding is driven primarily by the pursuit of happiness or enjoyment, our horse’s imperfections become obstacles to our experience. His anxiety, tension, lack of focus, or unwanted behaviors are viewed as inconveniences that interfere with our ability to relax. We become frustrated with him, disappointed in ourselves, or critical of the ride because it failed to deliver the feeling we were seeking.

But satisfaction is something entirely different.

Satisfaction comes from meeting what is difficult with curiosity and integrity. It comes from growing into the kind of rider our horse needs. It comes from understanding more deeply today than we did yesterday.

When our purpose is satisfaction rather than happiness, we arrive with a different attitude. Instead of asking what we can get from the horse, we begin asking what we can give to the moment.

A horse that won’t stand at the mounting block is no longer an annoyance—it is information.

A horse that jigs down the trail is no longer ruining the ride—it is revealing tension.

A horse that calls to his friends is not being disrespectful—it is expressing something about his emotional state.

Instead of simply working around these problems or tolerating them, we become interested in resolving them at their root. We seek understanding instead of compliance. We seek balance instead of control.

Ironically, this approach often produces far more true happiness- we could instead call it joy- than chasing happiness ever could.

The joy becomes a byproduct rather than the objective.

Our relationship with our horses deepens because it is built on shared growth instead of shared entertainment. We leave the barn not necessarily because every ride was easy or enjoyable, but because we know we met the moment honestly. We became a little more capable, a little more patient, and a little more aware.

That is the kind of satisfaction that lasts long after the ride is over.

03/15/2026

03/11/2026

“Horses regularly trained with ground work are more relaxed when ridden”

A recent study of dressage horses in Germany that looked at rein length and tension revealed a surprising finding: horses who were regularly trained in ground work/in-hand work had lower heart rates during ridden work than all of the other participating horses. This wasn’t what the researchers were investigating, but it was clear in the results. From this, the researchers concluded that, “Perhaps horses trained in ground work had more trust in their rider.”

So why would it be true that horses who regularly learn via ground work/in-hand work are more relaxed? There are a few possibilities.

1) Horses trained regularly with ground work are more relaxed because their trainers are more relaxed. It’s possible that humans who take the time to teach their horses from the ground are less goal oriented and more concerned with the process. They may be more relaxed in general and foster this same relaxation in their horses. As you are, so is your horse.

2) Horses trained regularly with ground work have trainers who are more educated about a horse’s balance.

Their horses learn to move in correct balance which allows them to be healthy and sound in their bodies and, therefore, more relaxed. Physical balance is emotional balance.

3) Horses trained regularly with ground work understand the trainer’s criteria better. They have mastered the response to an aid before the rider mounts and know the “right answer” already once under saddle. They don’t experience any conflict when the rider asks for a behavior because the neural pathway has already been installed. They are more relaxed about being ridden because it rarely has caused confusion for them.

For us highly visual humans I think that ground work is often a better way to begin exercises because we are much better at seeing our horse doing the right thing than feeling it from the saddle. Often, my feel in the saddle is enhanced by the fact that I have watched my horse perform an exercise over and over in our in-hand work. It feels how it looks. In-hand work is also a good way to teach our horses because our own bodies are often more in balance when we are walking beside our horses. With the ground under our feet we are able to be more relaxed if something goes wrong and less likely to be so busy wrapped up in our own balance that we give our horses conflicting or confusing aids. It’s a good place to figure things out. I am a huge fan of in-hand work.

I’m glad to learn research revealed ground work is good for horses. Horses with a low heart rate are relaxed and relaxed horses perform better and live longer. In this day and age of people starting horses under saddle in under an hour and increasing monetary rewards for the “young horse dressage program“, everything seems to be done in a hurry. The entire horse culture seems to privilege “getting up there and riding your horse”. But as one of my favorite writers and accomplished horsewoman, Teresa Tsimmu Martino writes, “In today’s horse culture there are clinics that brag about starting a c**t in a day, as if the quickness of it was the miracle. But old horse people know it takes years to create art. Horses as great masterpieces are not created in a day. An artist does not need to rush.” We need more scientific studies like this one to encourage us to slow down and take our time with our horses.

So why were the horses in the study more relaxed? Likely it was a combination of all three factors – a relaxed trainer, better overall balance and clear understanding of criteria.

These are things that matter to your horse, and yes, will allow him to trust you when you ride. Take some time to slow down and work from the ground, learn a bit more about equine balance and teach new things in-hand before asking for them under saddle. You can take your riding to a whole new level and help your horse become more healthy and relaxed in the process.” - by Jen of Spellbound Horses

03/11/2026

Mistakes and recovery

In order to learn, we have to develop a healthy relationship with mistakes. I often tell my students, “try your best, don’t worry about being perfect because it’s not possible.”

That’s easy for me to say, but harder for me to experience. When I’m a student, I learn so much about myself. I am put in positions where my best wasn’t enough for the moment, where I misread a horse or scenario, or just plain didn’t respond at all. It is uncomfortable to make mistakes, and even more to make those publicly.

But if we are more concerned with our own image or comfort than growth, we lose one of the most important lessons- recovery.

It is essential to be aware of the mistake to learn from it. It’s very important to be able to admit what we failed at so that we can be sure to adapt and adjust for the future. But what is harder for many to learn is how to recover - to shake it off and regroup with fresh awareness and calm.

One of the great benefits of making mistakes is to learn that it is inevitable - shoot for 100% and regroup when we meet failure. The more we practice the skill of regrouping, the better at it we can be.

Make your mistake, learn from it, and regroup: emotionally; physically, spiritually. Then get back in the pen.

03/02/2026

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02/19/2026

Forward Through Fear

There is more than enough in this world to make us fearful. Experiences that shake us. The struggle to find good help and real guidance when we need it most. The constant messaging that tells us if we do one thing, we cause harm—but if we do the opposite, we cause more. Over time, that noise convinces us we are never good enough, and eventually we become afraid to try at all.

But goodness is never born from fear.

Nothing that truly benefits the horse—or ourselves—comes from a fear-based place. Fear of making mistakes. Fear of stepping outside our comfort zones. Fear of learning new skills and letting go of old ones. These fears do not protect us; they shrink us. And when we shrink, we spread that contraction to others. Fear moves through others like a storm cloud, settling most heavily on the most sensitive and vulnerable.

Yes, there are risks. Yes, there is discomfort. Growth asks something of us. To be free, we must be willing to experiment, to fail, and to accept uncertainty in service of something higher. This is not blind optimism or forced positivity. It is clear-eyed awareness. Look carefully at the world as it is—see the risks, see the difficulty—and then choose to step forward anyway.

Everything beautiful and free lives on the other side of fear. But getting there is not dramatic, and it is not loud. It is built through knowledge that replaces shadows with understanding, and through steady practice—one honest step, and then another.

Forward is not reckless, it is not careless.
Forward is courage in motion.

And courage, practiced consistently, changes everything.

02/10/2026

We are now taking clients for western riding lessons! Classes are small and personal ages 6+! Openings- Tuesday & Wednesday afternoons and evenings & Sundays late morning/afternoon.
Call or text Alex 9724009027 to register.