06/11/2026
“Your horse isn't giving you a hard time.
Your horse is having a hard time understanding you.”
Many people push and pull on a horse simultaneously with their energy endlessly- asking the horse to go inadvertently and yet giving them no place to go. They say to themsleves they arent using pressure and yet block and push the horse constantly, while teaching bad cues and cues made up through repetition, not feel.
Pressure has become a dirty word, and yet, many people who are afraid to use it are in fact overusing it, without giving the horse any relief from it, or education to it.