05/15/2026
Hands off when the dog is busy! 🤚❌
We have a bad habit of touching dogs without thinking. It’s something we do mindlessly.
But that needs to stop.
Being mindful about petting builds SO much trust with your dog, and they’ll tell you when they do and don’t want your affection. It means so much more when you have their consent. 🥹
And on a practical note, it helps prevent resource guarding from developing. Touching when they have resources gives them reason to be worried. No touching, no worries.
Touching a dog when they have resources is also a great way to get bit. This happens a lot thanks to the old AWFUL advice to touch a dog’s food while they’re eating. (SERIOUSLY, STOP DOING THIS! IT DOESN’T HELP, ONLY HARMS!)
Teach and insist on this with your kids. Insist on it with your guests. It’s a house rule: no touching the dog when they’re busy. Period.
Questions? Leave them in the comments. I always answer!
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