20/04/2026
【Training is for a Lifelong Bond: On Adoption, Education, and Silent Cries for Help】
Last night, I received a phone call that a dog was on the verge of being returned. I immediately cleared my schedule for today. Right now, I’m on a train heading to Hsinchu, mentally preparing for the upcoming case. Lately, I’ve been receiving many of these "emergency rescue" requests, and to be honest, my heart feels heavy.
Many of my clients are compassionate adopters. After bringing a rescue dog home, some try self-teaching while others hire trainers. Some have even completed over 20 sessions, yet two years later, they find themselves at a breaking point:
"Teacher, we’ve had training for so long. Why did he suddenly start biting?" (The truth: Two years of accumulated stress).
"Teacher, he’s still lunging on the leash, and he still fights with our cat like they’re sworn enemies..."
"Teacher, I can’t do this anymore. The barking is constant, and I’m about to have a breakdown..."
To these struggling owners, here is what I want to say: "Training" isn't just about "obeying commands." It is a profound act of cross-species translation.
§§§ Why do problems persist even after classes?
Every rescue dog has a backstory—past traumas, fears, or defensive instincts rooted in their unique personality. If training only focuses on technical moves like "sit" or "heel" without untying the dog’s internal "emotional knots," the underlying issues will eventually explode—often two years down the line or even later.
This is why, when choosing a trainer, "Communication and Observation" matter far more than "how many tricks" are taught:
Training the Human, Not Just the Dog: A trainer is in your home for only an hour; the other 23 hours are spent between you and your dog. A true "guide" teaches you how to observe and read your dog's every subtle cue.
Uncovering the "Why" Behind the Behavior: Lunging, barking, and biting are often a dog's way of crying for help. We need to address the root cause, not just suppress the symptom.
The Best Fit is What Works for You: Every household has a different rhythm. Professional advice should seamlessly integrate into your lifestyle, making training a natural part of your day rather than a burden.
@@@ To those adopters currently struggling
Adoption is a noble promise, and education is the continuation of that commitment. If you find your current practice frustrating or see no improvement, please don't give up. Sometimes, we just need a change of perspective—or even a change of trainer. Just like people, sometimes it’s a matter of "chemistry" or "fate." We need to rebuild that foundation of trust.
Leave professional matters to those with the experience to handle them. Our goal isn't a dog that performs circus tricks; it’s a family member who can relax with us on the sofa and walk calmly by our side.
Hsinchu, I’m almost there! To today's fur-kid—let’s do this. 💪