
01/10/2023
Let me start by saying that there are no perfect dogs. Dog trainers aren't here to help you create a robot dog who follows all your "commands" and are expected 100% to "behave" wherever they are or whatever situation they're in.
Throughout my career as a dog trainer, I've encountered lots of people asking me how to teach their dogs to not bark, to not lunge, etc. People have asked me to train their dogs to "Stay" for whatever duration and only move when told or "released". Some requests sound like "My dog is scared of motorcycles, teach him how to stay still when there's a motorcycle passing by" and many others.
The main point is to some people, they think "I hired a dog trainer. I'm training my dog so that my dog will DO something." Everyone was so concerned about teaching their dog to DO something such as a cue or what to do when stimuli is present.
It is high time for us to understand that dog training isn't just about teaching your dogs what to do. It's about teaching them and patiently guiding them on how to feel about people, situations, other dogs, sounds, and things. We can't do this without taking a very important step first: Understanding that when we expect too much from our dogs without taking steps to teach them positively, we are already setting them up to fail.
A big part of my job is to set my clients - both humans and dogs - up for success. This starts with the proper education, patience and love, and commitment to training.