08/09/2025
Happy Birthday Mama Mary
HOW CAN MARY BE A MOTHER AND A VIRGIN AT THE SAME TIME? THIS WILL SHOCK YOU.😲🤔
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Most of our brethren from other denominations wonder, and some even laugh at us, when we say:
“Mary is a virgin, even after giving birth to Jesus.”
To them, it sounds impossible… even foolish.
“How can a woman give birth and still remain a virgin?” they ask.
But here is the truth: what is impossible for man is not only possible for God, it is the very sign of His saving plan.
✝️ Virgin Before, During, and After Birth
The Catholic Church proclaims what the earliest Christians, the Fathers, and the Scriptures affirm:
👉Before birth: Mary conceived without knowing man. She asked the angel:
“How shall this be, since I know not a man?”
And the angel replied:
“The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you.” (Luke 1:34–35)
👉During birth: The prophet Isaiah foretold:
“The virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and shall call his name Immanuel” (Isaiah 7:14).
Matthew confirms this prophecy at Jesus’ birth (Matthew 1:22–23), showing that she is the same virgin both in conceiving and in giving birth.
👉After birth: She had no other children and remained wholly consecrated to God (CCC 499–501).
✝️ Virginity and Motherhood United
Humanly, virginity and motherhood exclude each other. That is, humanly speaking, they can't work together. It's either you are a virgin or a mother.
But in Mary, by God’s power, they meet without conflict.
This mirrors the mystery of Christ Himself:
Jesus became what He was not, fully human, without ceasing to be what He always was, fully divine.
In the same way, Mary became what she was not, a mother, without ceasing to be what she always was, a virgin.
✝️ How Can This Be?
If the Son of God could enter her womb without a man’s seed, purely by the overshadowing of the Holy Spirit, then He could also leave her womb without breaking what God Himself had sealed.
The prophet Ezekiel saw it in vision:
“This gate shall remain shut; it shall not be opened, and no one shall enter by it, for the Lord, the God of Israel, has entered by it; therefore it shall remain shut.” (Ezekiel 44:2)
The Fathers recognized in this “shut gate” the image of Mary’s womb, the divine King entered, and it remained forever closed.
The Gospels give us another image after resurrection, when the disciples were gathered in the upper room in fear:
“Jesus came and stood among them, though the doors were locked.” (John 20:19)
If the Risen Lord could pass through closed doors, He could also be born without opening the “door” of His Mother’s virginity.
✝️ Without Pain, Without Bloodshed
In Jewish law, childbirth brought ritual impurity because of pain and the shedding of blood (Leviticus 12:2–4).
But Mary’s childbirth was different:
👉She bore the Holy One of God, who came to take away our sins, not to cause impurity.
👉She gave birth without pain, because the curse of Eve (“you shall bring forth children in pain”, Genesis 3:16) did not touch the New Eve.
👉She gave birth without bloodshed, because the Son she bore came not to take blood from others, but to shed His own on the Cross.
Her painless, pure birth was a prophecy:
The day would come when this same Son would endure the crown of thorns, the nails, and the spear, taking all pain upon Himself and pouring out His blood for our salvation.
Mary’s blood was never shed in giving Him life,
because His mission was to shed His blood to give us life.
✝️ Why This Matters
Mary’s perpetual virginity is not just about her, it is about Christ.
Her womb remained sealed before, during, and after birth as a living sign:
👉Jesus is truly the Son of God.
👉Salvation is entirely God’s work, untouched by human corruption.
👉The One who entered the world in purity would save it in purity.
So, yes, Mary is both Virgin and Mother.
She bore God in her body without losing the treasure of her virginity,
just as Christ rose from the tomb leaving it sealed.
The real question is not, “How can this be?”
The real question is:
“Do you believe that nothing is impossible for God?” (Luke 1:37)
Blessed be God for giving us such a Mother,
and blessed be Mary for saying yes to the impossible.
God bless you 🫵
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