30/09/2026
At what age do we decide that work isn’t fun anymore?
Young children don’t seem to make the same distinction between work and play that adults do. When they’re invited into the things we’re already doing, being alongside us and sharing the experience can turn even ordinary work into wonderful play. It’s the connection, communication and sense of belonging that make it so enjoyable.
This holiday period, the kids have been helping us prepare our new Jelka HIT Top Clean Mats from SureHoof for their new home around the hay feeders. Scooping gravel, filling mats, moving them into place and working out where everything should go. (If you are thinking of making some paddock upgrades this holidays, use the code BALANCE5 to receive a discount from Surehoof 🥰)
The mares were supervising, of course, and River came over to investigate too. 🐴
There’s so much in these ordinary moments: sensory input, movement, problem-solving, teamwork and responsibility. But also the chance to demonstrate what friends, freedom and forage look like in practice. How we care for our herd and others. How we use what we have, draw on our community and work together to nourish our own minds and bodies too.
Perhaps most importantly, they get to experience that their participation matters. That they are trusted, included and part of something bigger than themselves.
They weren’t pretending to help.
They were helping. 🥰
What parts of everyday work do your kids love being part of, and where do you still find joy and play in your own work? ❤️