06/06/2026
Many people ask about dog play and there is a lot of information out there, but this makes it nice and simple.
Are we sure it's a yes 🤔
Question is, how can you actually tell?
Because a wagging tail isn't enough.
A play bow?
Not enough info there either.
Both can mean much more than simply "play."
Looking for consent?
As weird as it sounds, stop watching what happens when they're together.
Start watching what happens when they're apart.
Do they come back to each other, loose and bouncy and wanting to continue?
There's a flow, an interest and usually an invitation.
What we do need to be mindful of is one dog insisting when the other has very little interest in continuing.
Consent can also be given and then taken away again, especially if one dog didn't appreciate what just happened.
But what happens next?
Are they willing to try again?
That's a good sign.
They may have simply needed a moment to work out the other dog's play style.
Dogs that are really good players don't base their decisions on just one moment or one signal.
Many need a few signals before they feel comfortable.
Maybe the biggest sign of consent isn't that they stayed.
It's that they left.
And chose to come back.