27/09/2025
I know this might surprise you…
It’s never easy to say, because for some, it’s a total lightbulb moment, and for others… it feels like I’m sharing the world’s worst news.
But here’s the truth most people don’t realize.
Many dogs don’t actually enjoy being hugged.
Some might tolerate it.
A few genuinely love it.
But a large number? They feel trapped, uneasy, or downright stressed.
And what’s harder to watch… is when a dog is showing clear signs they’re uncomfortable, turning their head away, stiffening, licking their lips, yet they’re told, “Don’t be silly,” and squeezed even tighter.
Those little “kisses” you think are proof they’re happy?
Often, they’re not kisses at all.
They’re stress signals, subtle ways your dog is saying, “I’m not okay right now.”
Now, that doesn’t mean no dog likes hugs.
Some absolutely do and they’ll make that crystal clear with relaxed body language, soft eyes, and natural affection.
If you’re not sure which camp your dog falls into…
Rewatch old videos or photos.
Look closely at their posture, their face, their body.
The truth is there you just have to look for it.
Because dogs do tell us what they need.
We just need to start listening.
Save this post as a reminder:
Real love isn’t about forcing affection.
It’s about understanding their language and honoring their comfort.
KUGO K9