16/07/2025
“Appa, I think Mirrabelle aunty knows more about me than I know myself.”
This was my 10‑year‑old daughter speaking to me just three sessions into her horse therapy.
We were pleasantly surprised that a stranger—three times my daughter’s age and speaking a different native language (even though she speaks fluent Tamil!)—could win my daughter’s trust, despite her struggles with anger, possessiveness, and emotional regulation.
I still remember the day, a couple of years ago, when she halted traffic by running helter‑skelter because a puppy tried to befriend her, wagging its tail.
And now, after just a few sessions, she tells me she’s beginning to like animals!
To see her, as parents, standing her ground when dogs much bigger than her come to check on her—indeed feels like a miracle.
What does Mirrabelle do, one may ask? I sat along the fence for a couple of days, trying to understand this, and I felt clueless.
All you see is a child being guided to take care of a horse—taking them for a walk, combing them, cleaning their hooves, and what not.
As an outsider, I couldn’t believe why anyone would sign up for this.
But yes, we did. Ten full sessions, an hour each. Most were one‑on‑one sessions for my daughter, a couple of them with her mother.
What unfolded was nothing short of magic. She became calmer. She started caring for her little brother. Her anger episodes went down drastically.
This felt more like art than science—and honestly, as parents, we’ll take that any day.
You can try not to credit Mirrabelle for this.
Maybe it was my daughter’s change of school.
Maybe turning ten was all she needed to realize what was hurting her.
Maybe she had a burning desire to change, and all this is coincidence.
But to make an introverted child open up to a stranger and gain her trust is an art.
And Mirrabelle is indeed an artist. My wife and I would bet our lives that she was the catalyst—the tipping point.
Her body language, tone, and choice of words felt like I was reading a textbook on parenting or mentorship.
Things so easy to understand, yet so difficult to internalize and implement. And she made it all look effortless.
- Father of a 10 year old