09/05/2026
Our amazing girl, Jenny, passed over the rainbow bridge today. We are all heartbroken. She was the meet and greeter here at Tails of Joy, for so many nervous and unsure little dogs, telling them that they would be safe and cared for. Thank you for bringing your never ending joy to every minute of our life. Thank you for choosing us. Thank you for giving us your whole heart♥️
We will see you again, on the other side, I’ve no doubt.
The hardest part of life with a dog isn’t what you think. It’s not bundling up to go outside with them in the pouring rain, in the freezing dark, when you’re exhausted, in pain, or your soul is restless. It’s not giving up trips or turning down invitations because you won’t leave them behind. It’s not the hair—on your sheets, your lips, your food. It’s not mopping the floor again, fully aware it’ll be dirty thirty minutes later. It’s not the vet bills, or the constant worry you might miss something important. It’s not the loss of freedom—because now freedom means “us.” And it’s not even that your heart no longer fully belongs to you.
All of that is love. All of that is life. All of that is a choice you made.
The hardest part comes slowly, like an old ache in broken bones. Like the kind of cold that seeps through you without warning and settles deep inside. One day, you just notice it—your dog can’t do what they used to. They try, they always try, but it’s not the same. They run to you like they always have, but slower. Their eyes are the same, but now there’s something in them—a quiet, tired “I’m still here, but it’s getting harder.”
And you remember who they were. And you look at who they’ve become—still yours, completely, trusting you with every ounce of their soul. They’ve always believed you’d be there, that you’d help, that you’d save them. And you were. But now you can’t save them from time.
The hardest part is knowing that while they were your comfort, your light, your safe place… you were their entire world. Their everything. Their sky. Their hope. And you’re not ready. Not ready to let go. Not ready to watch the one who taught you how to live slowly fade away.
Bringing a dog into your life is like letting a small flame into your soul. A flame that will warm you forever—even after it’s gone.
A dog has one purpose in life: to give you their whole heart.♥️
— J.R. Ackerley