19/01/2026
2016 vs 2026.
In 2016, I started doing door to door trainings and it was nice to be so personal to the clients that I crossed path with.
I met people of all walks of life and of different ages. It was how I even made friends then because I didn’t grow up nor live in Jakarta before this.
My life revolved around finding dog friendly places and following the new dog products that came out in the marker. By the time we got married in 2019, we were still doing everything related to dogs and hiking or traveling to anywhere that allowed dogs.
Even after our firstborn came, we still tried to involved the dogs and even went to find holidays that allowed our dogs to join.
By the time no.2 and then no.3 came, it simply changed. Our priorities has shifted and our lives is different. Thankfully, we had grown the team at clubhouse by this stage.
I am finally able to take a step back and feel that it’s ok! It’s okay that motherhood has now taken over instead of just pawrenthood.
It took us 3 child later to also find a balance in our relationship as a married couple and partners at work. And it was really Padel that gave us an outlet to reconnect and bond (but also tbh get on each other nerves, healthily).
Now I want to share, to reconnect and to tell y’all, whether you’re a first time dog owner, a dog owner who just started a family maybe, or even a dog owner who has already started a family and life have shifted - stay tuned to this page! You’re all not alone ❤️
What I learnt and finally am working on is : Motherhood, Pawrenthood, friendship, partnership is all really tough and it can be overwhelming and lonely.
My random scrolls and it’s crazy to admit - shorts and ads - they help me focus on what I can be interested in and relate to, and that kept me going on!
So hopefully, this page will be something for anyone out there!