29/05/2026
„Mine is friendly!“
And I believe you. I really do.
But „mine is friendly“ is a observation about your dog’s past, not a guarantee about what’s about to happen between our two dogs, in this moment, in this specific context.
It can absolutely indicate that a positive interaction is highly likely. It’s useful information. It tells me your dog has a history of being social and easy with other dogs and that matters.
What it doesn’t tell me is whether that friendliness automatically applies to my dog, today, in this particular environment and circumstance.
Because even the friendliest dogs have bad days.
Even the most social dog can become too much for another dog.
Even „friendly“ can tip into overwhelming, and overwhelming can tip into conflict… faster than either guardian has time to react.
This is why I still recommend avoiding short leash, narrow pavement interactions with unfamiliar dogs —(city life dog etiquette!!) regardless of how friendly either dog is reported to be.
Even in open spaces: watch body language.
Stiffness, intensity, a dog that goes suddenly very still - those are your cues to move on, no conversation needed.
You don’t owe anyone an interaction.
And neither does your dog.
So here’s what I want to know:
What do you hear when someone says „mine is friendly“: „mine has been friendly so far“ OR truly that „mine will always be friendly, no matter what“?
Let me know below.
dogmumlife
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