25/09/2025
Puppy Stages & Grooming
Dogs don’t just grow out of their puppy fluff - they go through big emotional and mental changes too. And those stages massively affect how they handle grooming. Here’s what that looks like in real life and why not to lose hope plus what you can do to help.
🐾 3 - 16 Weeks: The Sponge Stage
(a.k.a. socialisation window)
What you’ll see: Curiosity, wobbliness, eagerness to explore.
🚶For owners: This is your golden ticket. Get your pup used to being touched everywhere - paws, ears, tail, belly. Keep it positive, short, and fun.
✂️For groomers: First visits matter most. Keep it gentle, calm, and short. Let the pup sniff tools, reward them for standing on the table. Think “happy introduction,” not “full haircut.”
🐾 5-12 Months: The Awkward teen stage
What you’ll see: Suddenly afraid of things they were fine with last week, pushing boundaries, short attention span. So if you or the owner is wondering why the puppy is suddenly fearful of coming to you, leaving you, or resisting things they already seemed fine with - this is just their teenage phase showing up.
🚶For owners: Don’t panic if they regress - it’s normal. Stay consistent, keep handling them at home, and don’t skip grooms even if it feels tricky.
✂️For groomers: Expect fidgeting, barking, and “nope, not today” moments. Keep sessions patient and firm but fair. Break big grooms into shorter ones if needed.
🐾 1- 2 Years: Young Adult Stage
What you’ll see : More confidence, but also testing independence (“Do I really have to…?”).
🚶For owners: Keep reinforcing boundaries at home gently but firmly - brushing, combing, handling. If you let them wriggle out of it, they’ll learn they’re in charge.
✂️For groomers: Consistency pays off here. A steady routine, clear, confident but gentle handling, and zero drama go a long way. Reward good behaviour, don’t feed into tantrums.
🐾 2+ Years: Mature Adult
What you’ll see: Most dogs settle into routines, but quirks stick - the pup who hated dryers may always need a quieter setup.
🚶For owners: Keep up the maintenance at home. A dog who’s used to regular brushing and handling is easier (and happier) in the salon.
✂️For groomers: By now, patterns are set. Respect the dog’s limits, but don’t enable bad habits. Balanced handling and a calm environment keep things smooth.
💫Takeaway:
Grooming challenges often aren’t “bad behaviour” or incorrect handling they’re just developmental stages. So if you see a puppy reverting to being shy on the 2nd or 3rd groom and it leaves you thinking “what have I done wrong?” - or guardians start doubting the progress - know it’s completely normal.
With patience, compassion, and persistence, it does get better. Meeting dogs where they are, with boundaries and encouragement, sets everyone up for success.