
30/01/2025
“This may sound stupid, but….”
I remember one of the first times someone said this to me. We’d been rehabbing her border collie, I honestly can’t remember what for, and at her second appointment, I asked how they’d been getting on since our first visit.
“This may sound stupid, but… she’s started being able to scratch her ear with her back foot again, she hasn’t done that in ages.”
Not stupid in the slightest. A valuable observation, an outcome measure that indicated the dog was progressing and feeling more comfortable and capable.
Since then my ears always prick up when I hear that phrase.
Its often accompanied by an astute observation, or valuable information.
Or its a phrase used by someone trying to learn something – which is never something that should be discouraged.
Never be afraid to ask what something means – you’re supposed to feel educated and empowered to cope with whatever issues we are addressing in a session.
Never be afraid to ask why – sometimes it isn’t clear why something will work, or why its relevant in a particular case. I always try to explain reasonings, but equally I’m always happy to elaborate. Compliance increases with understanding!
This is especially crucial with management changes and exercise programmes.
(This also applies to understanding why I might be telling you to avoid, or not do, something!)
I can be most effective in my treatments and plans when I have as much useful information as possible.
I believe a crucial part of my role is to educate.
Please, never feel afraid to tell me something you think is relevant, no matter how ‘stupid’.
Please, never feel afraid to ask a question you think might be ‘stupid’ – there’s no such thing. None of us are above learning, we all have blind spots somewhere!