01/06/2026
This might be controversial, but feeling sorry for your rescue dog isn’t always helping them.
Over the years, I’ve worked with a lot of rescue dogs, and one thing I see time and time again is owners giving their dog a free pass because they’ve had a difficult start in life.
They get away with pulling on the lead, ignoring commands, reacting to dogs, barging through doors, demanding attention whenever they want it… and every behaviour gets excused because “they’re a rescue.”
At some point, though, we have to stop making excuses and start helping the dog.
That doesn’t mean being harsh. It doesn’t mean shouting at them or punishing them for everything they do wrong.
But dogs need guidance. They need structure. They need to know when they’ve got something right, and they need to know when they’ve got something wrong.
The reality is that some of the most anxious, reactive, and difficult dogs I’ve worked with have spent years being managed, excused, and tiptoed around. They weren’t lacking love. They were lacking clear direction.
A rescue dog’s past should help us understand them, but it shouldn’t stop us from training them.
The goal isn’t to make life harder for your dog. It’s to give them the skills, confidence, and accountability they need to actually enjoy more freedom and a better quality of life.
Sometimes the kindest thing you can do for a dog is stop treating them like they’re made of glass.