30/05/2026
So I was having a really positive week, half term has been chaos and very hot but we have juggled family time and kept the horses working.
Good news is that Zous headed off to his new home today, he found himself a lovely lady who met him, loved him, he loved her, we were happy and she has taken him home π₯° Already had an update and he is out in his field settled and happy in his new home. The ones on training livery are going really well and the ones for rehoming were ready to potentially find their new people!
That is where it all then went wrong π
On Friday night I messaged to check that the people coming on Saturday morning were all good to come still and they said no. The good news is that at least they didn't just ignore me and said no but how am I supposed to find genuine people to then view over the weekend late on a Friday evening π€·ββοΈ
What I will say is, if anyone can't find my number, I am all over the internet, I don't hide my number! I am easily found so that isn't a good enough excuse to not have contacted me earlier and then ignore my message about rearranging.
I am so fed up at the moment with wasting my time on people who have no intention of having horses from us. The other week I stopped a viewing because we seemed to be wanting to try the whole yard, even when the first two were completely suitable and the others wouldn't be, no surprise that I never heard back from them!
I am not here for people to joyride our horses, I am here for them to find the right person and home and for you to find the right horse. If there is one thing I can do, that is know when that horse could be right for you and you them.
I don't bu****it! If you aren't right, you aren't having them, it doesn't matter how much money you have or how great you think you are, my horses pick who they want and need!
The only issues I have ever had when rehoming is when people lie, they change what they want to do with the horse after they have the horses, or they don't tell the truth about the type of home life they can offer.
I know exactly what my horses need and want, I listen to them and allow them to let me know if they like someone or not. In the period of time they stay with us, I learn about each horse individually and from the type of stable to the job they want to do, I know what that is. When people change what they want it doesn't then just work because you have bought a horse. You have bought that horse because I have matched the horse to what you have told me you want to do. It isn't suddenly going to be capable of working happily in a school with you if you asked for just a happy hacker, the horse isn't just going to start jumping a metre track or going hunting if you wanted one to go to dressage and show!
The last thing I will say on this, is that I try my hardest to find everyone of our horses the absolute best homes and to those of you that the horses suited but you wanted more, it is your loss and the horses gain and to those that in the past lied to me, I am now even more cautious and determined to make sure that I get it absolutely right for every horse that I rehome!
I love my job, I love the horses but I also have a life.
Don't waste my time, I work long hours, this job never stops and I have a family I want to spend time with as well.
And if I haven't got back to you, do message me again if you are genuine. If the time wasters stopped wasting my time I wouldn't be so stressed and miss the ones who actually might turn up to view and want to find the right horse!
The lovely Zous having cuddles with Marshall and my last ride on himπ₯°