02/08/2025
🐾 'Reflections on the Lead' Series
The condition of your nervous system is incredibly powerful and often invisible to other humans, however your dog is completely tuned into your emotions, because of the connection you share.
When you’re anxious, your breath shortens. When you’re bracing for that potential dog around the corner, or anxiously scanning the horizon, your muscles tighten, and that energy travels down the lead.
Your dog doesn’t need words, they feel all of it. That’s why sometimes, they react before anything even happens. This isn't your fault, it's a natural behaviour for humans, just like it's natural for our dogs to forage and dig.
But, because we have such a strong bond, we can use that to our advantage.
With small shifts, we can create a more grounded, safe space for us and our dogs too.
You could try the 'Hand over Heart Reset' before you walk: Make sure you are sitting comfortably....Place one hand over your heart and one on your tummy.
Inhale for 4 counts, hold for 2, exhale for 6. Repeat 3 times.
Let your shoulders drop. Soften your jaw. Let your limbs go floppy.
And you could also try inhaling some diluted essential oils whilst focusing on your breathing:
Roman chamomile and Bergamot which calms and uplifts, releases fears and tension and helps emotional regulation, or Sweet Basil and Cypress which both regulate the nervous system.
Then..... gently ask yourself 'What energy am I bringing to this walk'?
You don’t need to be perfectly calm, just aware. And that awareness, that commitment to self-regulate even a little, is an act of love, for you, for your dog and for the positive energy you're creating.