27/12/2025
Unless you are in serious competition mode and even then your horse needs a break, if not from training, then maybe just from you. Horses really don’t need to be ridden every.single.day.
It is the quickest way to make a horse sour. I have heard that in some cases the vet says the horse has to be ridden continuously to keep the weight down. My answer to that is really? How would you like to be continually worked without a break? It didn’t go down very well.
I see and hear a lot of horse people feel guilty when they don’t ride.
Even when they’re tired.
Even when the ground’s frozen.
Even when their head is loud and their body’s asking for a pause.
But horses don’t wake up with a diary full of performance goals. They’re not stood at the gate hoping today is the day you school the perfect 20-metre circle that your instructor keeps making you practice.
Their world is simpler than ours.
Safety. Predictability. Comfort. Herd. Food. Space. Rhythm.
That’s the entire ecosystem of their wellbeing.
Choosing not to ride isn’t depriving them of something essential.
Often, it’s meeting their actual needs....
Most days, what your horse responds to isn’t the saddle. It’s you...
Your energy. Your breath. The tension in your jaw. The rush in your footsteps. Horses notice all of it. They adjust to it. They carry it.
A horse would rather stand quietly with a regulated human than carry someone who’s wound tight.
They would rather have an unhurried brush than be pushed through forty-five minutes of schooling while the winter wind , rain or snow rattles the arena boards. ❄️
They would rather feel you settle beside them than compensate on their back.
Riding is a human invention. It is not a horse requirement!
What horses look for is harmony. A safe companion. Someone predictable enough that their body can soften next to yours.
So when you choose not to ride because you’re exhausted, or the conditions aren’t right, or your nervous system is fried, you’re not failing!!
You’re speaking the horse’s language.
A regulated human is more valuable to a horse than a mounted one.
They don’t measure your worth in hours ridden. They don’t keep score. They care that you’re safe company. That you don’t bring storms into their space. That when you do ask something of them, it comes from clarity rather than pressure.
For some horses, riding less for a while is exactly what allows them to thrive. Bodies recover. Minds breathe. Relationships deepen.
If your horse is eating well, moving freely, and living in a rhythm that makes sense to them, you’re doing enough. Actually you're probably doing more than most!
And in the quiet seasons, something shifts.
Because horses remember who chose connection when there was nothing to perform. 🙌❤️
