Beautiful horsemanship

Beautiful horsemanship 🐓 Bitless
🐓 Bridleless
🐓 LIMA (Least invasive, minimally aversive)
🐓 Hacking on Dartmoor

I cannot tell you how grateful I am to the farmer and his wife for allowing me to use this track recently. It’s been a b...
24/06/2026

I cannot tell you how grateful I am to the farmer and his wife for allowing me to use this track recently.

It’s been a bit of a weird time here recently in that Clover hadn’t been quite right and then she was ok again and then off again. I couldn’t quite put my finger on what was wrong but she wasn’t herself. No heat, no swelling, no pulses, nothing really other than lethargy but then she went footy so I pulled her off the grass.

She improved in every way within 24hrs so she was either on the verge of lami or perhaps eating something that was making her feel off or something else. Whatever it was, she’s back to her usual self, thank the good lord!

There’s been a bit of reshuffling while Clover spent the week off grass but thankfully this track has been a god send especially in this heat!

Tom has been helping the ponies eat down some grass on a strip grazing system. This has meant Clover can be on the track with hay but Tom, who is VERY loyal to his mare, can be on the grass but he can check up and groom Clover over the gate.

Once the grass was grazed (it was Toms absolute pleasure🤣) he joined Clover on the track.

In the meantime I’ve been sorting fencing and a fencer for when they do go back out because one thing is for sure, this has scared me to death and I won’t be complacent again!

I have to say though I don’t think I’ve seen the grass growth as much as it is this year. Even the farm animals seem to be struggling to keep it down!

Every now and then I get an overwhelming urge to go visit Bella and T (and Relly).Years later the signs of them being he...
18/06/2026

Every now and then I get an overwhelming urge to go visit Bella and T (and Relly).

Years later the signs of them being here are long gone but I know they are. Not in soul but in body, and it brings me great comfort to sit in the last place that their bodies were.

Once again I find myself missing and grieving them and the season of my life that I had with them. Things felt simpler then…Easier, less heavy, less complicated, freer.

The connection and friendship that I had with both girls was something that I took for granted but it’s only now that they are gone and years later, that I realise and continue to grasp this.

I wonder how we stop taking things for granted…people, animals, homes, places…for it will fall away at some point and be no more. Seasons are part of life after all.

So here I sit, remembering, grieving, cherishing.

So here I sit, not understanding how I don’t take the place I NOW sit, the life I NOW have, for granted in the future.

What do we think about the government banning social media for under 16’s? I can see both sides but one thing is for sur...
16/06/2026

What do we think about the government banning social media for under 16’s?

I can see both sides but one thing is for sure, those pushing for a kinder way of doing things with horses through their social media platforms, will no longer be able to influence the next generation on a wider scale.

We will now be back to only being able to change things one child at a time within our little bubble.

What are your views?

Clover hasn’t been herself in the last week. I couldn’t quite put my finger on what was wrong so I’ve been covering all ...
13/06/2026

Clover hasn’t been herself in the last week. I couldn’t quite put my finger on what was wrong so I’ve been covering all areas with homeopathy remedies. Ive supported the liver with some herbs and gave her a gut support too.

Safe to say she’s feeling better!

These two were throwing themselves around all over the place when I went down last night🤣 I couldn’t take a step without them exploding into play and they were arguing over who would get me for scratches.

How many of you have thought about taking the plunge into bridleless riding since the U.K. comp? Or have you already sta...
08/06/2026

How many of you have thought about taking the plunge into bridleless riding since the U.K. comp? Or have you already started working towards it?

If you want to do it in a positive way then consider picking up my book! It’s very user friendly with a section on the basics of positive reinforcement training and then it goes on to how you put that into practise for bridleless riding.

The link is in the pinned post at the top of the page!

This is good! Infact it’s flipping great!! It is a step in the right direction. It is called ā€˜making headway’. It’s a bi...
06/06/2026

This is good! Infact it’s flipping great!! It is a step in the right direction. It is called ā€˜making headway’. It’s a big deal!

We cannot ask for perfection because perfection does not exist. Stop raising the bar when you cannot hit the bar yourselves. None of us can!

Revel in the fact that this is breakthrough and let’s celebrate the small steps that move us forward rather than saying ā€˜this is ok but we need to do better’. It’s disheartening! It’s toxic! It’s sad!

This is flipping great!!! šŸ™ŒšŸ™ŒšŸ™Œ

Celebrating all that is going on in the bridleless world right now with my crew, past and present! Hallelujah! Change is...
02/06/2026

Celebrating all that is going on in the bridleless world right now with my crew, past and present! Hallelujah! Change is a coming folks!!!

I don’t know about you but I admire the people who can spin many plates and keep them spinning. I am definitely not one ...
31/05/2026

I don’t know about you but I admire the people who can spin many plates and keep them spinning. I am definitely not one of those people🫣

Out of the 10 sticks I’m trying to move, I have about 3 plates going at any one time. One will be going super well. That is what I like to call my hyper focus plate. It spins like the clappers and looks impressive all of the time.

Then there’s my second plate- the minor focus. It does ok but it’s always on the verge of doing that end bit where it flips about a bit in slow mo so I’m just about getting it going again before it drops.

The final plate which we will call the failing plate has stopped spinning and is like a limp biscuit sitting on the stick by a corner.

All the other plates are on the floor doing nothing-broken plates.

I’ll attempt to pick up other plates as the failing plate falls or as my hyper focus switches between various seasons of life but there are always broken plates no matter how hard I try.

Over the past weeks I’ve been trying to sort my eating out after my metabolic health as become quite dire. After years of fasting for long periods and feeling pretty good on it, I’m suddenly battling crazy cravings, insulin crashes on everything I eat, weight gain around the middle-perimenopausals, you know exactly what I mean don’t you? I’m having to adjust my whole way of doing food and adjusting is hard.

Eating and remembering to eat is quite hard for me because anxiety feels the same as hunger, thirst feels the same as anger. I can’t determine what is a physical need and what is an emotional need. So all of this has become my hyper focus plate while I try to break habits of a life time. It’s taking all my brain space.

Anyway, I feel like I’m (vaguely) getting into the swing of things now but needless to say the horses have fallen off the stick and onto the floor while I try to sort my life out! They haven’t minded in the slightest but at this time of year, their waistlines have expanded just like mine🫣so it was good to be back out with them this evening.

We had a lovely mooch around the moor as the sun dropped down slowly in the sky. Both seemed happy to be out and it was an all round super peaceful plod.

The only bothersome grumble was some very disrespectful people had left a burn spot behind where they’d obviously been camping. What a way to spoil the view. ā€˜Leave no trace’ means nothing anymore.

This side of the moor is getting way too ā€˜peopley’ for my liking!

This girl is 19 today! She is an absolute joy! I’m so grateful that she came into my life. She makes me smile everyday w...
19/05/2026

This girl is 19 today! She is an absolute joy! I’m so grateful that she came into my life. She makes me smile everyday whether that’s through the joyous way she throws herself around in the field or the way she so carefully shares space with me or through the way she so clearly speaks about her likes and dislikes. Clover you are so special!

14/05/2026

A quiet drink stop and we were joined by a crowdšŸ“šŸ“šŸ“šŸ“šŸ¦„

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