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How lovely is this Olympics story. After her winning swim in the River Seine, Van Rouwendaal pointed to and kissed a tat...
09/08/2024

How lovely is this Olympics story.

After her winning swim in the River Seine, Van Rouwendaal pointed to and kissed a tattoo of her late dog Rio's paw print on her wrist.

She explained that after she lost Rio she didn't care about swimming for three weeks but then decided to do the swim for him ... and she did ... she won!

What a wonderful way for her to commemorate her special boy. ❤️

More on this story here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/olympics/articles/c20lmypk13lo.amp

Some tips and advice on the healing process following the loss of a companion animal.
09/08/2024

Some tips and advice on the healing process following the loss of a companion animal.

Below I have listed 10 steps in the healing process (in no particular order), I hope these help....

I've worked with people who have lost both elderly pets and young pets plus those aged in between and I can confirm that...
25/07/2024

I've worked with people who have lost both elderly pets and young pets plus those aged in between and I can confirm that age is not a factor when it comes to determining the severity of grief that someone may feel.

This is a really informative blog that explores the differences between losing an elderly pet and losing a younger pet.

What is the difference between 12 weeks and 12 years other than time?  So much and so little, is the loss of a pet who is older any less significant than one that has only been in the family for 3 months?

"Canine euthanasia is more than just a medical procedure; it's a heart-wrenching decision many dog guardians face. It's ...
10/07/2024

"Canine euthanasia is more than just a medical procedure; it's a heart-wrenching decision many dog guardians face. It's about choosing to say goodbye to a beloved canine companion, not out of desire, but out of compassion and necessity. This post dives into the ethical maze surrounding this choice, looking at the reasons, the emotions, and the tough questions it brings up."

If you are faced with this tough decision, please do get in touch. I can help you understand it more and talk you through the process. Being prepared, can really help.

Over Christmas we lost our beloved Yorkie, Holly. We made the choice to end her life knowing that she was in fact coming to the end anyway. Holly was a lovely little dog. She came out of a puppy farm at 6 and became a puppy. She went from broken to full of life. In true Yorkie, style, Holly thought....

A great article in today's Daily Mail featuring Dawn Murray, founder member of the Association of Pet Bereavement Counse...
08/07/2024

A great article in today's Daily Mail featuring Dawn Murray, founder member of the Association of Pet Bereavement Counsellors of which I am an Accredited Member of.

24/06/2024

💔 𝗠𝗮𝗶𝘀𝘆

Just over 6 years ago, this beautiful girl came into my life. She came on her first dog walk with me on 12 March 2018 and has been a very special member of the Happy Buddies walkies team ever since.

Maisy has such a sweet soul, a beautiful character and loves treats but her favourite walks involve water. She is so excited to see me when I arrive to pick her up and drags me down the garden path to my van - I can never get the van door open quick enough for her! After her walks she falls asleep the whole way home and I have to give her a gentle tickle to wake her up when it's time to get out the van to go home. Over the years, Maisy has become my most elderly lady and whilst her pace has slowed she still musters up as much excitement as she can when she sees me and her other furry friends.

Today though, I had the devastating phone call from her lovely mum explaining that Maisy has been very poorly the last few days and I'm heartbroken to say that my beautiful, kind, special water baby has sadly passed away with her family at her side.

It was only a few months ago that her Tuesday walk buddy Bullet, also passed away and I'm comforted to think that Bullet's friendly face will be there to welcome her over rainbow bridge and they can run free of pain together.

Maisy I'll miss you so much and I know that your Tuesday walk friends Dexter, Hector, Obi and of course my Buddy and Fudge will miss you massively too.

This post is in memory of Maisy who passed away at her vets with her family beside her.

Rest in peace beautiful lady Maisy and know you were loved so so much. 🌈💔

Great news to hear that the Pet Abduction Bill was successfully passed through the House of Lords and received the Royal...
28/05/2024

Great news to hear that the Pet Abduction Bill was successfully passed through the House of Lords and received the Royal Assent last week and will become law from August.

It will mean that pet theft will become a criminal offence at last and anyone found guilty of stealing a pet in England or Northern Ireland will face up to five years in prison, a fine, or both.

More details in below link.

On Friday 24 May the Pet Abduction Bill, which was introduced by Anna Firth MP, was successfully pushed through the House of Lords.

Have you lost a pet and now wondering if it's the right time to introduce another? It can be a tough decision and one th...
25/05/2024

Have you lost a pet and now wondering if it's the right time to introduce another? It can be a tough decision and one that needs to be thought out.

This article may help.

When a pet dies, we are left with a hole in our hearts and homes.

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26/04/2024

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Saying goodbye to a beloved pet is never easy, especially when faced with the tough decision of euthanasia. It's completely normal to feel a mix of emotions, like guilt or confusion. Our thoughts go out to anyone struggling with this heartbreaking choice right now. If you're struggling with the grief of losing your pet, we have some wonderful pet bereavement counsellors on our website. Don't hesitate to reach out for support.

https://www.dignitypetcrem.co.uk/pet-bereavement-support/pet-bereavement-counselling/

🐶 𝗡𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗟𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗗𝗼𝗴 𝗔𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗗𝗮𝘆 🐶Today is National Lost Dog Awareness Day and although this day was created in America...
23/04/2024

🐶 𝗡𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗟𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗗𝗼𝗴 𝗔𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗗𝗮𝘆 🐶

Today is National Lost Dog Awareness Day and although this day was created in America by Lost Dogs of America, it's well worth highlighting this day in the UK to help raise awareness about lost dogs here too and share information about what we can all do to help reunite them with their families.

Losing a pet is an unbearable thought yet, sadly, it does happen. There are things you can do to ensure a greater chance of a quick reunion should this happen though:

𝙈𝙞𝙘𝙧𝙤𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙥 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝘿𝙤𝙜
It is compulsory in the UK to microchip your dog. An up-to-date microchip can help facilitate a quick reunion. Make sure your dog is microchipped and that you keep your contact details up-to-date, especially if you move house or change your telephone number.

𝙈𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙎𝙪𝙧𝙚 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝘿𝙤𝙜 𝙃𝙖𝙨 𝘼𝙣 𝙄𝘿 𝙏𝙖𝙜
This is a legal requirement when your dog is in a public place. Your name and address must be on it and we'd also advise a mobile number is also included.

𝙏𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙝 𝘼 𝙍𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙗𝙡𝙚 𝙍𝙚𝙘𝙖𝙡𝙡
Teach your dog a reliable recall for when you are out walking and never let them off the lead if you are unsure whether they will come back to you. If in doubt, use a long line or training lead, especially if you are in an unfamiliar area where your dog may get lost more easily.

𝙈𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙎𝙪𝙧𝙚 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙃𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙋𝙡𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙮 𝙊𝙛 𝙍𝙚𝙘𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙋𝙝𝙤𝙩𝙤𝙨
Take clear photographs of your dog from various angles, and update them regularly. Make a note of any distinguishing features.

Take lots of photographs of yourself with your dog to help you prove ownership if needed.

𝘾𝙖𝙧𝙚𝙛𝙪𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝘾𝙤𝙣𝙨𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙧 𝘾𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙋𝙧𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙨
Take care when choosing someone to care for your dog if you are going away or need a dog walker whilst you are at work. Use a reputable company and choose someone who has qualifications and experience. Check references and licences (where appropriate) for people who provide dog walking, day care or holiday services.

𝘾𝙝𝙚𝙘𝙠 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙂𝙖𝙧𝙙𝙚𝙣 𝙄𝙨 𝙀𝙣𝙘𝙡𝙤𝙨𝙚𝙙
Make sure your garden is safe, secure and fully enclosed.

🔎 𝗜𝗳 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗙𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝗔 𝗟𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗗𝗼𝗴 🔎

If you find a lost dog and are able to encourage them towards you and keep them safe, take them to a local vet for their microchip to be scanned.

If you are unable to capture them, take pictures as best as you can and report your sighting to the local Dog Warden then share information about them on social media and local lost dog groups.

😢 𝗜𝗳 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗗𝗼𝗴 𝗛𝗮𝘀 𝗚𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗠𝗶𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 😢

𝙎𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙘𝙝 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝘼𝙧𝙚𝙖
Start with the immediate area where your dog was last seen. Call your dog’s name and some tasty treats and listen for barking, whining or any movement. Get friends and family to help with the search.

𝘼𝙡𝙚𝙧𝙩 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙉𝙚𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨
Let your neighbours know that your dog is missing and ask them to keep an eye out. If they went missing locally, some dogs may find their own way home.

𝘾𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙚 𝙋𝙤𝙨𝙩𝙚𝙧𝙨
Create and display posters with a clear photo of your dog, their name and your contact details. Put these in high-traffic areas around your neighbourhood or where your dog went missing and in local parks, vets and pet shops etc.

𝘾𝙤𝙣𝙩𝙖𝙘𝙩 𝙇𝙤𝙘𝙖𝙡 𝙑𝙚𝙩𝙨, 𝙍𝙚𝙨𝙘𝙪𝙚𝙨 𝘼𝙣𝙙 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝘿𝙤𝙜 𝙒𝙖𝙧𝙙𝙚𝙣
Call all local vets, the dog warden and RSPCA branches and other animal welfare organisations to see if your dog has been handed in. Send them posters of your dog to display.

𝙍𝙚𝙜𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙚𝙧 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝘿𝙤𝙜
Register them with a company such as PetsReunited, DogLost.co.uk or the National Pets Register..

𝙐𝙩𝙞𝙡𝙞𝙨𝙚 𝙎𝙤𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙡 𝙈𝙚𝙙𝙞𝙖
Social media can be a quick and effective platform to spread the word that your dog is missing. Include photos and information on how people can contact you with any sightings etc.

𝙏𝙖𝙡𝙠 𝙏𝙤 𝙋𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚
Visit places where dog walkers go such as local parks and public places and talk to people. Ask them to keep an eye open for your dog.

𝘾𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙈𝙞𝙘𝙧𝙤𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙥 𝘾𝙤𝙢𝙥𝙖𝙣𝙮
This is so they can flag your dog as missing. It will also alert them to anyone trying to re-register the same microchip number.

𝙊𝙛𝙛𝙚𝙧 𝘼 𝙍𝙚𝙬𝙖𝙧𝙙
Offering a reward for the safe return of your dog can help encourage people to join in the search and report sightings. It's worth checking your pet insurance policy too as some cover the cost of a reward.

𝘾𝙤𝙣𝙩𝙖𝙘𝙩 𝘿𝙧𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝘾𝙤𝙢𝙥𝙖𝙣𝙞𝙚𝙨
Drone companies such as Drone To Home and pet trackers who specialise in finding lost dogs are well worth considering.

Help to spread awareness of National Lost Dog Awareness Day by sharing this post. The more we can do to reduce the risk of our dogs going missing and increase the chances of reunions for those that are missing the better!

©️ Amanda Childs
Happy Buddies Dog Training, Dog Walking and Pet Care Services and Puppy School
Amanda Childs Pet Bereavement Counsellor

"Children suffering from pet bereavement will not necessarily grieve in the same way as adults. They may not be adept at...
19/04/2024

"Children suffering from pet bereavement will not necessarily grieve in the same way as adults. They may not be adept at expressing their feelings verbally in the way an adult can, meaning that understanding how a child may react is important in supporting them through their grief. Some children can be very resilient and cope far better than we give them credit for, while others are deeply affected by death."

The above extract is taken from the blog below by Dawn Murray. To read the full article on children and pet loss, click on the link within the post below.

This weeks featured blog is written by association founder member, Dawn Murray, who looks at the important and often complicated aspects of Children and Pet loss...

https://apbcounsellors.co.uk/blog/f/children-pet-loss

I'm very proud to announce that I've been accepted as an Accredited Member of the Association of Pet Bereavement Counsel...
20/03/2024

I'm very proud to announce that I've been accepted as an Accredited Member of the Association of Pet Bereavement Counsellors.

This is a network dedicated to providing support, education, and collaboration for professionals in the field of pet bereavement counselling. Members are committed to promoting the highest standards of care and professionalism in the field of pet bereavement counselling.

To find out more, please visit https://apbcounsellors.co.uk/

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