Woody's Holistic Grooming and Behaviour

Woody's Holistic Grooming and Behaviour Certified holistic grooming behaviourist offering consent-based education for dogs and guardians in Swindon. https://woodysholisticgrooming.co.uk/

Woodys Holistic Grooming is a specialist service focused entirely on co-operative care and consent based grooming. I work alongside behaviourists, dog walkers and veterinary physiotherapists to look for the route of grooming issues and provide you with a whole picture as to why a dog may not like a certain aspect of being groomed. No dog will be forced to do anything whilst in my care - instead we work together to create a mutual trust and a safe, positive experience.

This! Since doing the Dynamic Dog course last year I literally cannot stop seeing potential pain symptoms in dogs. It’s ...
05/06/2026

This! Since doing the Dynamic Dog course last year I literally cannot stop seeing potential pain symptoms in dogs. It’s soul destroying at times especially when it feels like no-one is listening.

I don’t want to bash any profession but we all have a responsibility to support our dogs and really listen to their behaviour not just label it as difficult.

I can do all the training in the world, I can change my environment twenty times over, build trust, build a relationship but I can’t win against pain - not on my own.

Please please please please please… if you suspect your dog is in pain DO something!

I am going to say something that might ruffle some feathers and I genuinely do not care.

DO THE FU***NG PAIN MED TRIAL.

I have a dog in my program right now. She came to me for biting people in the house when being touched. Which, yes, that is a serious behavior. But before we do anything else, we do the right thing. We rule out pain first. So we sent her to the vet for a full workup. X-rays. The whole thing.

Hip dysplasia confirmed.

And the vet cleared her.

"She is not limping. The hip dysplasia does not seem to be bothering her."

She is biting when touched. She is crying out during normal activity. She cannot settle. She is escalating.

I am not a vet. I want to be really clear about that. But I have been doing this long enough to know that not limping does not mean not hurting. Stoicism is a survival mechanism. Dogs are wired to mask pain. That is not a green light. That is a dog doing exactly what dogs do when their body hurts and nobody is listening.

And here is the thing I keep coming back to. I wrote about this a few months ago when my own back was out and I noticed how much shorter I was with my dogs. How sounds that never bothered me suddenly did. How Rumor's normal snuggling felt impossible. My behavior changed because my capacity changed. Pain does that. To all of us.

Research out of the Autonomous University of Barcelona found a direct link between pain and aggression in dogs. The most common cause? Hip dysplasia. Dogs with no previous history of aggression who developed pain became more impulsive, bit more frequently when handled, and were more likely to assume a defensive posture than dogs who had shown aggression before. And their owners were often completely blindsided because nothing in that dog's history prepared them for it.

Sound familiar?

When a dog is in pain, the brain shifts into survival mode. The pathways that normally handle sensory input, coordination, and emotional regulation get taken over by pain signals. You cannot train your way around that.

You cannot train your way around that. Behavior modification does not fix a body that hurts. The downside of trying is minimal. The downside of not trying is a dog who keeps suffering while everyone looks for answers in the wrong place.

About 80% of my cases have a medical component. That was not something I set out to specialize in. It just kept showing up case after case until I could not ignore it anymore. And now I feel a responsibility to say something when I see it being missed.

So I am genuinely asking, not coming for anyone. What is the hesitation with a pain med trial? What do you actually lose? A few weeks and the cost of the medication. What do you lose by not doing one? A dog who keeps getting labeled a behavior problem while her body is quietly screaming that something hurts.

She is telling us. In the clearest way she knows how.

You don't lose anything by doing the trail but you have everything to lose if you don't.

Picture of Roulette just because.

04/06/2026

Dream team! Raferty absolutely smashed it today, the fact he chose to snuggle up to me at the start was a really special moment. Yes we used a lickimat for some of the trickier parts, but if it works then so be it. It’s not about achieving a perfect groom, it’s about working with the dog in right front of you ❤️🐾

04/06/2026

As far as chin rests go Enzo is the pro! The amount of work his owners have put in with him is inspirational and it certainly pays off. I absolutely love our sessions together - makes me remember why I do what I do, even on the tough days ❤️🐾

04/06/2026

The beauty of choice. My sessions with Pip mean so much to me. She’s not naturally trusting of people so to be allowed into her circle is huge and something I am so grateful for.

I never have any expectations for our sessions, I simply take her lead and see what she allows.

After a run round the fields this morning she was a little muddy but the shower is a huge trigger for Pip, so I thought I’d try giving her a wash with my favourite Nilaqua no rinse shampoo instead. She wasn’t sure to start with but with patience and kindness we managed ❤️🐾

04/06/2026

This session with Zero made my heart sing. The fact he feels more confident exploring the room and actively engages in the snuffle matt during the groom and not just afterwards is fantastic. All to often big dogs are misunderstood but in my experience, most are just gentle giants ❤️🐾

04/06/2026

The world needs more Little Woos - she really is one in a million ❤️🐾

I remember hearing this phrase whilst watching a Pixar short with my girls. The film was called “Float” and was about a ...
03/06/2026

I remember hearing this phrase whilst watching a Pixar short with my girls. The film was called “Float” and was about a Dad who was becoming increasingly frustrated by his son who kept floating off into the sky instead of walking. The Dad went through various emotions of frustration, embarrassment, fear etc, all the while looking at other families with their children, comparing himself to their “normality”. Clearly he loved his son, but he was struggling to cope.

Watching the story reminded me so much of many of the people I work with. They adore their dogs, but the constant pressure to fit into a box is intense. The frustration as to why their dog won’t cope with what other “normal” dogs do. The embarrassment, people accusing them of abusing their dogs because they’ve not been able to get a matt out right away. The judgement of others because they’d made the decision to work on their dog’s confidence rather than force their dog through a shave off. The constant questioning and fear as to whether they’re doing the right thing.

And do you want to know a secret? I get those feelings too. There has been many times I’ve had a dog with me in the grooming room and thought it would be easier to just get on with it. Maybe the dog will shut down and let me do it and then everyone would be happy right?

But I just can’t do it. I want a dog to feel safe with me, in the same way I want my children to feel safe. I never want to think of them shutting down or going into a state of panic because of something I’ve done.

By the end of the story, after a bit of an emotional breakdown in a park, the Dad realises that his son was never the problem. In fact, his son’s differences are what make him special and the bond he has with his son is all that matters.

Yes some dogs need to be groomed, but who says it has to be done in one particular way? Why can’t we think outside the box?

Dog hates the shower but will happily stand in a paddling pool? Great - let’s wash them off in the paddling pool then.
Dog won’t stand to be brushed all over but will tolerate you brushing a leg on the sofa - perfect, let’s chill together and do one section at a time over a few days
Dog refuses to have their nails done but loves digging in the garden - awesome, lets shape that digging into using a scratch board!

You are not failing if you are trying. Failing would be burying your head in the sand and hoping the problem miraculously disappears. Reaching out for help when you need it and accepting that your dog doesn’t have to fit the status quo - that’s the best kind of pet ownership in my eyes.

It’s your journey with your dog and it’s totally ok to do it your way.

28/05/2026
I’m really excited to be offering dog safety workshops as part of my affiliation with KAD Kids Around Dogs. It’s still e...
27/05/2026

I’m really excited to be offering dog safety workshops as part of my affiliation with KAD Kids Around Dogs.

It’s still early days but so far I’ve visited one local primary school and have a second one booked in for June as well as a local preschool.

As both a parent and a dog owner, I think it’s so important to help children understand the way dogs communicate and how kindness and mutual respect can go such a long way in building harmonious relationships.

If you know of any schools or education groups that would benefit from a workshop please do get in touch ❤️

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