25/03/2026
How do our horses lives look from their perspective?
If equestrians were asked this question I'm almost certain that most of them would say they felt their horses have a great life. They're fed, have a nice warm stable with a comfy dry bed, they're groomed and ridden out on hacks, competed and treat like kings and Queens. They'd say they love their horse, and they just know that their horse loves them. Maybe their horse even nickers whenever they arrive to see them, and they take this as a sign of affection and deep love.
A lot of our relationships with horses are built on dependency instead of autonomy. The horse values us as a resource- we control their lives, and are their only access to food, water, shelter, companionship; all of the things they need to have any quality of life at all. Their lifestyles don't suit them as our practices are steeped in tradition and things that misalign with who they really are. As a result they feel pressure and tension, instead of peace and fulfilment in our presence and within themselves, and our connection with them becomes about accessing essential resources instead of anything genuine.
We might think that a cosy indoor bed and a hack around the local nature reserve sounds like a great life, but that's because it aligns with what we as humans value and enjoy, not who horses are and what they need. If we were to flip the situation, and for us to be the horse, we'd find that actually, what we felt as a human was an enriching existence, isn't that fulfilling at all.
If we allow our horses to be horses, learn about their behaviour and what they need to be genuinely happy, we can be assured that if the situation was flipped we'd be just as happy as horses as we are as humans. If we do our best for our horses to meet their needs as naturally as we can- companionship, turn out, good nutrition, positive interactions and training, autonomy; when we consider things from their perspective, we can feel comforted by the knowledge that they're probably having a good time too ❤️