04/04/2025
Out of our comfort zones (long post alert)🤪
People have said to me that it took them around a month to pick up the phone, call me, email or message my page….once they have its then taken them another few weeks or more to book a session, why? 🤷♀️
I get it, life happens, money goes out quicker than it comes in or the thought of putting ourselves in a vulnerable position where we could look like an idiot is what holds us back?
I’ll be honest-
So recently I started having training sessions with a well known, successful sheepdog trainer, competitor & breeder….off I went with the postcode in my phone & to be honest not feeling quite as confident or mobile as I normally would due to falling bum over b**b while training at home 6 weeks earlier 🤪
I had mixed emotions, I’ll be honest, I was both excited & anxious at the same time not knowing what Zing my young Kelpie lad would do, would he make me look & feel like an idiot? The unknown right?? As it happened No, far from it & my trainer was lovely to me, instantly putting me at ease & with that I wasn’t worried to look like an idiot at times…..it’s all part of the learning curve.
Now maybe I’m weird, I have been called worse but I like to feel vulnerable, out of my comfort zone, conscious incompetence it’s called the posh way to name it where you bloody know your not great at what your having a go at, that’s where I am now, in a world I’ve never been in before, it can feel pretty lonely too but when I feel this in learning it ‘grounds me’ as this is exactly how most of my new clients feel when they make that phone call, pull in my yard, get their dog out, call it or show me something that their dog would do at home with its eyes shut but now can’t even sit 🤪it reminds me of how it feels to learn something new!
News flash- it’s ok to feel it! Own it people! The most important thing is that you do if you really want to make that phone call, email or message, I know for me making my clients feel useless, rushed or just negative about themselves is not how I roll here so having a connection with that person you put your learning trust into is massively important 👍that can take abit of time too, we have to drop our guard, that’s hard for some people, that old saying you never know until you try still holds strong, I’m still feeling vulnerable while enjoying my sessions, I just wanted people to know I’m human too🤭🤪xx get & have fun with your dogs!💕