13/01/2026
Great question for all my followers and clients?
Why did you choose the dog breed that you now have?
Did you know I offer a service to help you find the perfect dog breed that will suit your lifestyle, because each individual dog breed isn't just about the looks and size.
One of the first questions I ask in a behavior consult is:
“Why did you choose the breed of dog you have?”
People are often surprised by that question.
They expect us to start with training issues, reactivity, barking, or leash walking.
But the answer to this one question tells me a lot about how hard life with this dog is going to feel.
When someone says something like:
“I am retired and enjoy relaxing at home so I picked a Pug to keep me company.”
or
“I love backpacking and got a Cattle Dog who would enjoy that with me.”
I know we’re starting from a solid place.
When the answer is more along the lines of:
“I wanted a big dog.”
“I wanted a non-shedding dog.”
“I wanted a merle dog/a bue-eyed dog/ the cute puppy I saw.”
I already know there’s going to be friction.
Because regardless of how much you like their looks ... the dog’s idea of a good life and the human’s idea of a good life probably don’t line up very well.
I cannot say this often enough:
‼️ Different dog breeds are not the same personality in different packaging. ‼️
They don’t just differ in size, coat, or color.
They vary WIDLY in how they experience the world, what they find rewarding, and what kind of life feels satisfying to them.
This is why I think the most important question is not:
“Do I want a big dog or a small dog?”
or
“Do I want shedding or non-shedding?”
It’s this:
“What PERSONALITY of dog do I actually want to live with?”
What kind of day feels good to you?
What level of activity fits your life?
What kind of temperament makes everyday routines more fun ... not impossibly hard?
If you’re someone who enjoys quiet days at home, a high-drive field line retriever is going to be extremely exhausting.
If you live in the middle of a big city, a dog who is highly sensitive to movement and noise will struggle.
If you live on acreage full of wildlife and no fence, a dog with strong prey drive will spend their life trying to chase things.
While I will help you as much as I can as a trainer, I CANNOT change who your dog is.
So choose wisely when you pick a breed.
You need to get a dog who wants similar things in life as you.
(Whether that is adventure, challenges, experiences ... or relaxation and socializing).
It's actually a lot like picking a partner as a human :D
The question shouldn't be:
"Do I like how this dog looks?"
Instead, always think:
"Is that the dog I want to live with?"
The answer to that will go a long way towards the two of you being happy together!