03/06/2026
"๐๐จ๐ซ๐ค ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ง๐ญ ๐จ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ."
It's a phrase that can make many professionals feel a little uncomfortable these days.
Not because the principle is wrong, but because it has often been used to justify the use of punishment, aversive tools, and force.
However, when I talk about working with the dog in front of you, I'm talking about understanding the individual in front of you and adapting your support to meet their needs.
This does not mean, changing your ethics, changing your commitment to welfare and reaching for harsher methods because progress isn't happening quickly enough.
Just recognising that every dog is different.
๐พ A fearful Romanian rescue may need much more distance from people than a confident Labrador.
๐พ A dog reacting because they are frightened may need a completely different approach to a dog reacting because they are frustrated and desperately want to interact.
๐พ A puppy struggling with confidence may need gentle exposure and opportunities to explore at their own pace.
๐พ An elderly dog with arthritis may need environmental changes and adapted enrichment rather than more training.
๐พ A dog who finds vet visits overwhelming may need months of preparation and confidence-building before they're comfortable being handled.
The principles remain the same.
We use positive reinforcement, we build trust, we listen to what the dog is telling us and we move at a pace the dog can cope with.
What changes is how we apply those principles to the individual in front of us.
For example, I recently worked with a dog whose reactivity was driven by frustration. He wasn't trying to make other dogs go away. In fact, his biggest struggle was when they left!
If I'd treated him like a fearful dog who needed more and more distance, I wouldn't have been addressing the real emotion behind the behaviour.
Instead, we focused on helping him cope with dogs moving away and building emotional regulation around that frustration.
Same force-free principles, just a different plan for a different dog.
That's what working with the dog in front of you means to me. Not changing the method or changing the route.
Because ethical, force-free training isn't about making the dog fit the plan.
It's about making the plan fit the dog. โค๏ธ