05/01/2025
4 weeks ago my life changed, for the better of course. I welcomed this little cute dog into my family.
Meet Merrick, the Border Collie (I'm adding the breed here because many people already asked me what he was). He's 9 weeks old in these photos.
Having a puppy is an amazing experience. I'm aware that many puppy owners struggle with the typical issues of housetraining, biting, zoomies etc, so I'll give you my take and approach to this.
I'll tell you about Merrick's early life week by week, and hopefully you'll get some value from this. He is my puppy no 4, so I already have some habits and protocols that have helped with raising them.
Today we'll talk about week 1.
SLEEPING ARRANGEMENTS: my puppies sleep with me in my bed, or I sleep with them in the living room. This time it's the latter.
I have a mattress on the floor, and Merrick can come to me and cuddle when he wants to. He's not crated at night, and I take him out every time he wakes up. It's not more than twice per night, usually once.
This is my best way to ease the puppy into a new home life. Remember until I brought him here, he was with his mum and littermates, and puppies sleep in a pile, not separately. They need to feel the warmth of each other, the heartbeats and softness of the little bodies. I provide that for him, and I've never had a single pip from any of the puppies I raised this way. They snuggle in and fall asleep instantly. They feel safe.
I do this until the puppy has a good bladder control over night, and enough independence to sleep all night on his own bed, without needing me (4-6 weeks).
HOUSE TRAINING: every 20-30 minutes the puppy is taken out. My whole attention is on him, and I'm super vigilant. We had a few incidents of course, which were cleaned with an enzymatic cleaner, but in general he was really good. No number 2s at all, only pees inside.
ALONE TIME: every day Merrick is left alone, in the crate, at least twice (Arco's walks). He's used to the crate, as the puppies had one at the breeder's home. He gets some goodies on a lickimat, and chews, so he's busy while I'm out. The maximum time alone is 2 hrs. I'm always watching for signs of anxiety, but I haven't seen any. None of my puppies never bothered with this. They just went to sleep. Of course I make sure the puppy has had some exercise, play, and potty break before I leave.
SOCIALIZATION: Merrick goes to work with me, so he meets some people there, and the first week he met one of the resident dogs, although he was in my arms, I didn't let them interact. At the end of the week we went to a village and he met some friends and one nice dog. He's super into dogs and people, very hard to distract, a big red flag for the future, we'll need to work on that.
He also went for a couple short walks with Arco, just in the fields near me. Again, totally obsessed with Arco, following him everywhere... as much as he could, of course, on his little legs. But able to engage with me and play with a toy a few times. Took treats as well, good treats, like cooked chicken or smelly puppy treats. I wouldn't even dream of offering him a kibble at that time.
PLAY: most of the time we just play. I want him to play with a variety of toys,, as well as food. I have lots of different toys at home, some are for everyday use, some are for walks only, and interaction with me. I want to see what his preferences are, and what he's clearly not interested in.
As with most puppies, he loves to chase long toys and catch them, and then tug. Also the horrible squeaky latex balls with faces are his very favourite (I think I lost a significant percentage of my hearing in the last few weeks).
And the flirt pole! Right from the get go, he loved it! At that stage he was still very clumsy and slow, so our play was a bit boring for me, but he had lots of fun.
Now for the biting part of puppy life, yes he was vicious that first week! I have scars to prove it. But as with the other puppies, I put on my padded working gloves and we played bitey-bitey with them. He quickly learned to only bite when the gloves are on, and leave my skin alone. He loves it, I love it, so it's a win for both of us. But I'm not saying that you should do that too. Especially if children are involved. In a single household it might work really well.
The alternative would be to get a big stuffed, realistically looking dog toy and play with it. Puppies really unload on a toy like this, and then you have peace and your hands are saved. I do use my stuffed black lab for this as well and Merrick can freely abuse it as much as he wants.
Play with food was introduced that week, again slowly and with zero difficulty, just dropping treats on the ground, or following a treat in my hand. Just to see what foods he likes, and how determined he is to get them.
TRAINING: only basics like food following. I'm more interested in play and engagement at the moment. I can teach him anything I want later. I was looking for some eye contact, a bit of hand touch, and a general prosocial attitude. And he's got lots of it.
RELATIONSHIP WITH ARCO: this was a biggie. Unfortunately Merrick wants to jump up at Arco and lick his face. Unfortunately this is the thing Arco hates most. Many of his angry outbursts at other dogs happened when the other dog jumped to his face. So it was, and still is, a constant work for me, although right now it's slightly better, but the first week was tough.
I have barriers at home, and I had to use them throughout the day, as the little dog was relentlessly trying to get to Arco, despite clear warnings. That week Arco went for him once, causing Merrick to scream and be terrified afterwards, but not enough to remember the lesson. for longer than half an hour...
There was a bit of friendly interaction towards the end of that week too. But generally Arco stayed on my bed knowing that the puppy couldn't reach him there.
In a multi dog house it may take a while to develop friendships, and it's our responsibility to be the mediator. I don't allow my dogs to 'sort things out themselves', I'm always there to offer support to either party. And if I can't be there, the dogs are separated. With Arco I know that he will be good with the puppy in a couple months at the max. But until that happens I supervise all interactions.
Ok, phew, so that was week 1. A lot of work, but also so, so rewarding! I'm absolutely loving it, although I'm still a bit sleep deprived. In a few days I'll post week 2. Now I have to go as the beast woke up...