
16/09/2025
"It is easier to light a candle than to curse the darkness." 🕯️🐾
I say this with love, and a little fire:
Your cat needs action. Not excuses.
Not self-doubt.
Not endless overthinking.
And definitely not the story that “this is too hard.”
I see so many well-meaning, deeply loving cat parents resist the very practices that could change everything.
You want your cat to get better.
You want to use supplements, syringe feed, monitor symptoms, create routines, and follow the plan.
But then the voices come in:
🌀 “I’m not good at this.”
🌀 “What if I do it wrong?”
🌀 “Why is this happening to me?”
🌀 “It shouldn’t be this hard.”
🌀 “I’m too overwhelmed.”
Suddenly, everything feels like a battle. You’re fighting with your cat, with the plan, with your time, with your thoughts…
And it’s exhausting.
💬 But let me tell you something I’ve seen over and over again:
Your cat doesn’t need you to be perfect.
Your cat needs you to show up.
And here’s the truth:
It’s easier to light a candle than to curse the darkness.
It’s easier to start the SubQ fluids than to spiral about how awful it is.
It’s easier to mix the supplement into a treat and learn how to deliver it gently than to spend the day arguing with your own mind.
It’s easier to do one part of the plan than to stay stuck doing nothing.
👉 You don’t need to FEEL motivated to take the right step.
You don’t need to love syringe feeding to get it done gently.
You don’t need to wait until you're “ready” to build a better outcome.
💡 You just need to move. One step. One practice. One candle at a time.
Because complaining?
Cursing your situation?
Arguing for your limitations?
That drains your energy, your time, and, most heartbreakingly, your cat’s chance at feeling better.
✨ Positive Mental Attitude (PMA) changes the game.
Not fake positivity. Not spiritual bypassing.
But a fierce, grounded belief in progress.
In doing something instead of nothing.
In being the guardian your cat needs, even when it’s hard.
So here’s your reminder:
Do what needs to be done.
Do less if you must, but don’t do nothing.
Track what you’re doing.
Trust the process.
And stop making it harder by fighting it.
If you are missing having a plan, comment PLAN, or send me a DM: I can help you make one.
Once you have a plan, go light the candle.