Puppy Education with Valerie Vdawg Wilson

Puppy Education with Valerie Vdawg Wilson I am an ethical, kind, force free, DTC certified dog trainer with a special interest in adolescents and puppies.

18/04/2026

Dogs are communicating. Let's listen sooner.

There’s something dogs do incredibly well…
they tell us how they’re feeling.

The challenge isn’t that they’re not communicating—
it’s that we often don’t recognise it until it’s loud.

Before a growl…
there’s usually a pause.
A head turn.
A lip lick.
A subtle shift away.

Quiet signals. Easy to miss. Easy to dismiss.

But those early moments?
That’s where bite prevention really lives.

Because by the time a dog is growling, snapping, or biting,
they’re no longer whispering… they’re shouting.

And not because they’re “bad”
—but because they weren’t heard.

A growl isn’t the problem.
It’s the message we didn’t catch sooner.

So this Bite Prevention Week,
let’s shift the focus away from the top of the ladder…

and start noticing the bottom.

The small signs.
The quiet cues.
The moments where a dog is asking,
as gently as they can—

“Please give me space.”
“I’m not comfortable.”
“I need a break.”

Dogs are communicating.
Let’s listen sooner. 🐾

24/03/2026

Doodle owners… did you think you were getting good old standard beans…
and then realise you’ve brought home a slightly spicier bean instead? 🌶️

Are Doodles really “hard work”… or just misunderstood?

I hear this a lot.

“Cockapoos are a nightmare.”
“They pull like a train.”
“They don’t switch off.”
“They’re just… a bit much.”

And honestly?
I get why it can feel like that.

This is what I often see:

A dog who…
• pulls like they’ve got somewhere important to be
• notices everything before you do
• is wired… or worried… or both
• jumps up, barks, reacts
• struggles to settle, even when they’re clearly tired
• finds it hard being left
• goes from calm to full beans in seconds
• wants to sniff, chase, think and move… all at once

And an owner quietly thinking:
“I just wanted a dog to love and go on lovely walks with…”
“I’m trying… why does this feel so hard?”

Here’s the bit I want you to hear.

You haven’t got a “bad” dog.
And you’re not getting it wrong.

You’re trying your best…
you just weren’t given the full picture of the dog you were bringing home 💛

You were expecting a cuddly, easy family dog…
and instead, you’ve got a dog built from two very clever, very busy working breed brains.

An athlete…
mixed with Einstein…
mixed with the Duracell bunny.

A spaniel brain that says:
👉 “Let’s go! Let’s sniff! What’s that? What’s that?!”

And a poodle brain that says:
👉 “I’m thinking, I’m learning, I’m spotting patterns… and I don’t switch off easily—
often doing all of that on what feels like springs for legs.” 🐾

Put those together and you don’t get “easy.”

You get a fast brain.
A sensitive system.
A dog who notices a lot.

And yes… sometimes a bit of a whirlwind.

So when life starts to feel tricky—
the pulling, the not settling, the big reactions, the clinginess—

It’s not “bad behaviour.”

It’s a dog with energy that hasn’t found an outlet yet.
A brain that needs somewhere to go.
A system that hasn’t quite learned how to land in our world.

And here’s the hopeful bit…

When we understand more about the dog we have…
everything starts to make more sense.

Training becomes more effective—
because we’re meeting the dog in front of us.

Focusing on things like:
🌿 sniffing
🌿 thinking
🌿 Steadiness
🌿 Engagement and disengagement
🌿 emotional regulation
🌿 and learning how to switch off

Things begin to change.

So if your doodle feels a bit like a spicy bean right now… 🌶️

You’re not alone.
And you’re not failing.

You’ve just got a bright, bouncy working breed with a brain
that needs the right kind of help 💛

“Listen” and you will see!
07/03/2026

“Listen” and you will see!

Absolutely this! I really do not think strangers should give your dog treats and this is so well explained.
07/03/2026

Absolutely this! I really do not think strangers should give your dog treats and this is so well explained.

Food appears.
So does a problem.
Don’t get me wrong, I love using food. But food is still an area that requires a bit of caution.

Asking others to reward often starts with good intentions.

Someone smiles at your dog.
Then they ask if they can give your dog a treat, or we might suggest visitors give a food reward.
We may be attempting all this so our dogs feel better around others.
And in that very moment it feels harmless.

But something subtle can start happening.

People can stop being just “boring”. They can become exciting, predictive and a reason for the very over excited behaviour we may be trying to solve to keep popping up over and over again.

Scanning for people.
Maybe even insisting on attention from strangers.
Dogs begin watching hands.
Moving toward them with an expectation and a level of excitement that starts to take many by surprise.

“Hey, so I shouldn’t reward a dog for being calm around people?”

Yes. You should reward. If you really want to show a dog a certain behaviour around people, food is great but it should really come from you.

Or suddenly the very dog you were trying to teach calmness to when around people, is the one dragging you toward them.

Most people mean well. They really do.
But they don’t know your timing.
They don’t know what behaviour they just reinforced.
And they don’t know what you’re working hard on.

A few mistimed rewards really can undo everything.

💛🖤❤️
20/02/2026

💛🖤❤️

I Don’t Think You Meant to Get It Wrong…

(A Border Collie’s Letter to the Humans Who Love Him)

Hello.

I know you love me.

You wouldn’t have chosen me otherwise.

You tell people all the time how clever I am.

You show photographs of me sleeping upside down on the sofa like a furry accident.

You laugh when I tilt my head at you.

And honestly?

I love you too.

But I think we might need to talk about something.

Because lately…

Neither of us looks very happy.

You Thought You Were Getting a Dog

You researched.

Well… a little bit.

You read that Border Collies are intelligent.

Loyal.

Easy to train.

Good companions.

Nobody really explained that intelligence without purpose feels a lot like pressure.

Imagine being brilliant at something but never being told what that something is.

That’s me.

My Day While You’re Away

You leave for work.

Nine until five.

You say goodbye.

I watch you go.

At first, I sleep.

Then I wake up.

And my brain switches on.

I listen to everything.

The post arriving.

Children walking past.

Cars slowing outside.

Dogs barking three gardens away.

My world becomes noise and movement and questions I cannot answer.

Was that a threat?

Should I respond?

Is someone coming?

Should I control it?

I don’t know.

So I try everything.

You come home and say:

“He’s been at the window again.”

From my side?

I was trying to help.

The Things That Frustrate You

You don’t like that I chase bikes.

Or react to cars.

Or bark in the back of the car when dogs walk past.

You worry when I snap sometimes.

You wonder where the sweet puppy went.

I didn’t disappear.

I just grew into the dog I was always going to be.

Fast brain.

Fast reactions.

Big feelings.

No outlet.

The Weekend Fix

Saturday arrives.

You feel guilty.

So we walk for miles.

You throw a ball again and again because someone told you it would “wear me out”.

I run because running feels good.

But here’s the secret.

It doesn’t empty my head.

It winds it tighter.

You see a tired dog.

Inside, I feel like a kettle that never quite boils but never switches off either.

Monday comes.

Nothing changed.

The Part You Didn’t Notice

I don’t struggle because you don’t love me.

I struggle because you love me in a human way.

More walks.

More cuddles.

More freedom.

But what I need sometimes is guidance.

Clarity.

Boundaries.

A job.

Because uncertainty feels loud inside my head.

I’m Not Trying to Be Difficult

When I bark in the car, I’m overwhelmed.

When I chase movement, instinct takes over before thinking arrives.

When I struggle to settle, it’s because nobody taught me how.

Dogs don’t arrive calm.

We learn calmness.

Right now, I only know how to switch on.

What Helps Me Most

Not exhaustion.

Not endless miles.

Not another toy.

Give me small pieces of work.

Searching for food.

Learning to wait.

Using my nose.

Short moments of focus with you.

Teach me where to rest.

Show me when the world isn’t my responsibility.

Routine tells my brain it can relax.

Leadership tells me someone else is thinking for me.

That feels safe.

To the Humans Reading This

If your clever dog feels harder every week…

If reactions are growing.

If settling is difficult.

If the car has become stressful.

If frustration is creeping in.

Pause.

Look at lifestyle before behaviour.

Ask whether the dog in front of you matches the life around it.

Because most dogs aren’t choosing chaos.

They’re adapting to confusion.

To Trainers and Handlers

Sometimes owners don’t need judgement.

They need translation.

They love their dogs.

They just didn’t realise love alone isn’t always guidance.

Teach structure.

Teach fulfilment.

Teach calm.

The change can be extraordinary.

From My Bed Tonight

You didn’t ruin me.

You just didn’t know.

And that’s alright.

Because if you give me purpose…

Teach me how to switch off…

Help me understand the world…

I will meet you halfway.

I will walk beside you calmly.

Ignore the cyclist.

Sleep peacefully.

And become the dog you always believed I was when you first picked me up.

Also…

We really must discuss scooters.

I remain deeply concerned.

13/02/2026
28/01/2026

BEING AN ACTIVE PERSON IS NOT A GOOD ENOUGH REASON TO GET A WORKING LINE DOG 🐕 💨

Whilst at the climbing centre, a friend approached me and asked for advice on getting their first family dog. He told me he was thinking of getting a Working Cocker Spaniel.

They're a super active and fit family, but upon learning what breed he was considering my first bit of advice was "DON'T GET A PUPPY FROM FIELD TRIAL CHAMPION STOCK" (Caps lock for emphasis, I didn't shout at him! 😆)

Now the nuance here is that different dogs have different working styles. Not just spaniels, but Border Collies, Labradors and of course all other working breeds too. Some dogs 'work' more steadily, whilst others operate on the environment much more quickly.

Not all working line dogs struggle with impulsivity, but a heck of a lot do! Although note, impulsivity isn’t exclusive to working line nor pure bred dogs.

There is always going to be variation within a breed, within a line and even within a litter. Genetics will not dictate the dog you have for their whole life, because their environment matters too.

But we mitigate having unwelcomed surprises and navigating steep learning curves if we carefully consider a dog's ancestry prior to acquiring them. (Note, not always possible with rescues).

Too many owners aren’t even aware of there being such a thing as ‘lines’ in dogs. Show or working line isn’t just relevant for pure bred dogs either, it very much applies to mixed breeds too.

I’ve met too many owners who aren’t able to tell me if their cockapoo is from Working or Show stock. Of course, I can tell by observing the dog 😆

Sticking to Gun Dogs- you could get stock from a steady Field Trial Champion whose got enough working drive to be the best of the best, but who naturally regulates themselves that bit easier.

Or you could get stock from a really high drive dog who is a Field Champion because they've been trained and handled by someone very experienced in raising and training a dog with such high drive drive and subsequent high intensity behaviour.

I’m afraid to say, most inexperienced dogs owners do not have the skills in place to train really high drive dogs.

Training mechanics take time to develop, and the dog's behaviour can escalate whilst the owner is trying to learn and put into practise managing their highly impulsive working stock puppy > adolescent.

Most families struggle to find the time to put the extra training in for dogs that are bred from top class, high drive working stock. Heck, some struggle to find it with non working breeds.

🏆 I get it, Field Trial Champion sounds like the dog comes from well cared for and well bred stock. It sounds impressive.

The same could be said for getting your Border Collie from a Farm. Farm bred sounds like a 'proper collie', right?
Sure...... and Farm Stock collies often struggle with city life or living without their brains being exercised to their full potential.

🏃‍♂️ 🚲 Being an active person is not a good enough reason to get a working line dog from working stock. Walks are rarely enough, regardless of their duration.

Dogs with unmanaged drive are a risk to wildlife, livestock and themselves. Inadequately managed behaviour can even escalate to the point where people or the dog's family members can become at risk of harm (being pulled over, bitten).

⏰ You have to be ready to dedicate a lot of time training and managing working stock dogs, and I'd recommend you learn how to do that with a much easier breed/type first.

🩻 There is a myth that working line dogs are automatically healthier.

This is false. We see plenty of Hip Dysplasia and Luxating Patellas (plus more) in Working Line Border Collies, Shepherds, Spaniels, Labradaors, Goldens, Vizslas, GSPs etc etc.

Whilst some show line breeds have unhealthy, exaggerated features, not all do and some breeders don't select for the extreme.

Even show line X with working line can be a good balance for most dog owners whose primary reasons for getting a dog is companionship at home and on walks.
Although this is no guarantee. You still need to apply the same caution, being mindful to consider the most challenging traits and features in both dogs paired and that their hip scores and any other health tests are compatible.

If you have found a Working Line litter of puppies you’re interested in- before you commit- observe the parents (both of them, pre pregnancy for the bitch). Watch their behaviour in a range of environments.

Perhaps these particular working line dogs are a little less turbo. It’s possible. But don’t assume, get as much observation in as possible- even if by video.

🐕 💨 Fast may look fun, but a tendency for turbo requires a lot of extra input from you. People think they can handle these dogs, until they realise they can't.

Then what? Sadly some dogs end up being rehomed or even worse....euthanised if their behaviour has escalated and a home can't be found.

Develop your training skills with a dog with lower drive. If you decide you LOVE training and you want to do more and more of it and can commit to it for the majority of a dog’s lifespan, then you can consider whether you're ready for a higher drive dog.
🫵 Oh and breeders, stop selling your working stock pups to first time dog owners. Seriously- it’s so irresponsible!
Grill prospective adopters on whether they can meet the dog’s physical and mental needs across the dog’s life.

Picture by Cathy Cassie. You can learn more about Cathy's shepherding work with her Border Collies at Collieology, she has some published books on Border Collie's too.

27/01/2026

The best thing we can give our dogs is us, just time with us, whatever that looks like.

What dogs miss so commonly when they find themselves without a person is simply the consistent presence of someone. It doesn’t matter if you’re too tired to play, too unmotivated to train, because having you with them doing nothing is so much better than not having you at all.

Address

6 Clearmount Avenue
Newmilns
KA169ER

Opening Hours

Monday 9am - 1pm
Tuesday 9am - 5pm
Wednesday 1pm - 5pm
Thursday 9am - 5pm
Friday 9am - 5pm
Saturday 9am - 5pm

Telephone

+447738864030

Alerts

Be the first to know and let us send you an email when Puppy Education with Valerie Vdawg Wilson posts news and promotions. Your email address will not be used for any other purpose, and you can unsubscribe at any time.

Contact The Business

Send a message to Puppy Education with Valerie Vdawg Wilson:

Share

Category