05/06/2026
This is a subject that hits hard for me. I lost my best friend (a grey pony called Misty) in a tragic accident when I was 13. I didn’t get to say goodbye..
I believe that the decision as to whether children should be present at the passing of their dog or cat, lies solely with their parents, who know them best. I have witnessed very small children be included in the process of saying goodbye.. The way they were spoken to, listened to and allowed the freedom to come and go depending on their wishes, was key. Helping with making paw prints, making fur keepsakes and having time and space to speak, cry and be present can really help.
I have tears in my eyes as I remember a young girl reading out a letter to her beloved dog, after she had died. 🕊️💕
Let Them Help Say Goodbye
Children who are included in memorial rituals grieve more healthily than those kept apart. Dr. Sife (founder of the APLB) in 'The Loss of a Pet' recommends making children feel part of the ceremony. Their love for the pet was just as real.
Was there a child in your life who grieved a pet alongside you? What helped them through it?
