04/10/2025
Just a reminder of how easily “aggressive dog” stories get twisted — and how often it’s the humans who need anger management, not the dogs.
I received a phone call this week. Not the first, and sadly not the last of its kind — but for personal reasons, this one hit close to home.
The caller opened with the evergreen line: *“I have a vicious dog I need you to put down.”*
He went on: *“The vets gave me your number.”*
(Before you ask — yes, I did have *the talk* with said vets right after.)
I took a deep breath and explained the obvious — something that should have been explained by the vets offering such services in my name in the first place. That when you have a so-called “aggressive” dog, it’s almost never (ever) without a reason. There’s virtually no such thing as *a bite out of the blue.* Dogs are pack animals and are desperate to avoid physical confrontation. Where there is a bite, I guarantee you there have been a plethora of signals you’ve managed to ignore.
I told this person that he needs to take his dog to a vet first, to confirm whether any sign of aggression isn’t caused by a medical issue (most commonly pain). Then he needs to consult a behavioural therapist. Or, as a last resort, he needs to look into rehoming — to allow people with more expertise and resources to tackle the issue, for the sake of his dog.
His response struck me in the chest: he cannot rehome due to the “dog’s nature” *and* because he’s an XL Bully. Instantly, images of my own gentle XL girl flashed before me — and I imagined the amount of abuse I’d have to put her through to make her aggressive (if that were even possible).
I said: *“Even more so. You cannot rehome, and bull breeds are the most affectionate by nature you’ll ever find.”* And I repeated: *“You need to get him checked by a vet and then consult a behaviourist.”*
His reply only confirmed my suspicion about who the “vicious” one in that household really was: *“I’m gonna hang up, because you’re talking a lot of sh*te.”*
Just how much abuse does this poor dog have to endure daily behind closed doors, if it took his owner less than two minutes to lose his temper with me? I asked myself.
I felt heartbroken after the line disconnected. Helpless — unable to protect these poor, voiceless animals who are at the mercy of narcissistic, abusive people refusing to take responsibility for their own actions, even to the extent of sacrificing the lives of the very beings they should be caring for.
To my fellow animal lovers — vets, owners, and everyone with empathy:
Don’t turn a blind eye. Don’t facilitate the abuse of animals by these horrible people. This is *not* the time to be polite — however it is part of British culture. So is protecting the weak and the voiceless! Raise your voice instead of awkwardly changing the topic or complying just to avoid confrontation.
These so-called “owners” need to be collectively called out for what they are — irresponsible, immature, soulless monsters with a God complex — and made aware that their behaviour is not socially tolerated.
Thank you for your support.
Be their voice 💗💪
*(Picture of my “vicious beast” for reference)*