03/06/2026
When I look at photos like this, I can't help but think about how much pressure there is when we first bring a dog into our lives.
Whether they're a tiny puppy, an adolescent whirlwind, or a rescue settling into a new home, it often feels like there's so much we should be doing -
Training plans, socialisation, enrichment, recall, loose lead walking. Combined with advice from friends, family, social media and complete strangers.
It's easy to feel like every decision matters and that if we get something wrong, we'll somehow mess everything up. But after working with so many dogs and their people, one thing I've learned is that relationships aren't built through perfect training plans. They're built through connection, understanding and spending time getting to know the individual dog in front of you.
If I could go back and tell my younger self one thing, to spend less time worrying about what everyone else thought I should be doing and more time enjoying the dog in front of me. Because dogs aren't projects to complete. They're individuals with their own personalities, preferences and stories to tell.
So I'm curious... If you could go back and tell yourself one thing when your dog was younger, what would it be?