21/03/2025
In over 20 years of working with dogs, I thought I’d seen it all. But this one was a first.
Every evening, around 10 or half past, the dog would start barking. Not at anything in particular, just at his people. They’d be watching TV, nice and cosy, and he’d had enough. Time for bed. So they’d switch off the telly and head upstairs.
You heard that right. The dog was putting them to bed.
It was like watching a child tell the parents it’s bedtime, and the parents actually listening.
Lovely people, by the way. Some of the kindest, most nurturing clients I’ve met. But when dogs are given all the nurture and none of the leadership, things can go a little sideways. And sure enough, this wasn’t the only area where the dog was quietly calling the shots.
It’s a good reminder. Dogs don’t just need love. They need a guide. Someone to protect, coach, lead and nurture them. All four matter, not just one.
Give them only the nurture, and you might find yourself following their bedtime routine.