21/10/2026
HANDLING IS EVERYTHING!
This video shows a black Labrador that was reactive towards other dogs. In the very same lesson, you can see him happily walking past the exact dog that had previously triggered his reactivity, calmly following his owner instead.
So, what’s changed?
The handling!
There are many factors that influence a dog’s behaviour, from genetics and previous learning experiences to the environment they’re in. But when it comes to guiding your dog towards better choices, handling is EVERYTHING.
You cannot expect to influence your dog’s decisions if you haven’t developed the practical skills needed to guide them.
Handling is a fine art. Whether you’re using a piece of equipment to guide your dog, applying pressure, releasing pressure or delivering a reward, the timing, consistency and clarity of your handling all matter.
And like any practical skill, it takes time, patience and practice to master.
Here’s an example.
If I gave ten children a football and asked them to complete a series of football-related tasks, you’d almost certainly see two or three who naturally stood out. They’d have better coordination, timing and a natural feel for what they were doing.
Does that mean the other seven can’t learn to play football?
Of course not!
It simply means some will need more practice, patience and guidance than others.
Dog handling is no different.
Some people pick it up almost immediately. Others struggle with their timing, coordination, confidence or ability to read what’s happening in front of them.
And that’s absolutely fine.
I’ve worked with countless owners who initially struggled to handle their dogs, some of which were incredibly difficult and potentially dangerous. Yet, with the correct guidance, patience and consistent practice, they’ve developed the skills needed to handle those same dogs confidently.
Nobody becomes a good handler overnight, and watching someone make it look easy doesn’t mean it was easy for them to learn.
The important thing is understanding that handling is a skill, not something you’re simply born knowing how to do.
The Labrador in this video hasn’t suddenly forgotten that other dogs exist. He’s learning that there’s an alternative to the behaviour he’s previously rehearsed, and his owner is learning how to guide him towards that alternative.
Of course, this is just one lesson in one environment. The behaviour still needs to be practised, reinforced and generalised.
But it demonstrates just how much can change when the person holding the lead knows how to influence the dog at the other end.
Good handling is earned. Be patient, put the work in and give yourself time to develop the skill.