Charlie's Equine Services and Horsemanship

Charlie's Equine Services and Horsemanship Intelligent Horsemanship Recommended Trainer (IHRT), BHS AI Int Sm and BSc Equine Sports Performance.

**This Saturday!** Still a few tickets left and a few days to get your tickets. The spooky horsetalk is suitable for all...
10/03/2025

**This Saturday!**
Still a few tickets left and a few days to get your tickets.

The spooky horsetalk is suitable for all from novice to experienced people and young and old. Come on your own or with friends.

Email [email protected] to book.

Struggling with spooky behaviour? Not sure what to do or feeling nervous about dealing with a spooky horse? Come along t...
07/03/2025

Struggling with spooky behaviour? Not sure what to do or feeling nervous about dealing with a spooky horse?
Come along to The spooky horse talk - how to get your horse thinking.
15th March (next Saturday!) Chailey village Hall 6.30 for 7pm start.
This event is open to all and is suitable for all levels of experience.
Email [email protected] for tickets to secure your space.
Oh and there is cake!

Sometimes it feels like the horse world has really moved on and is moving away from traditional habits making the world ...
06/03/2025

Sometimes it feels like the horse world has really moved on and is moving away from traditional habits making the world a better place for the horse. But then things happen, you see things and hear things and realise we have only just started and there is so so much more to do. Old habits and ways die hard.

One day it will be normal to see things and not get blind by tradition to question things more and to see the world from your horse.

In the words of his owner "cart horse to show horse"Larry sporting his latest hair cut blanket clip with legs off. Clipp...
05/03/2025

In the words of his owner "cart horse to show horse"
Larry sporting his latest hair cut blanket clip with legs off.

Clipped with almost every clipper I have.

black beauty, phoenix, harmony plus and the nova's.

And his kind owner went and got me some chocolate and a drink which was much appreciated and needed after this make over.

A super soggy session for these two today. But it was okay because Luna could keep her ears dry under her neck cover. No...
26/02/2025

A super soggy session for these two today. But it was okay because Luna could keep her ears dry under her neck cover. Not sure Luna was that amused with the weather and was far more interested licking or rearranging the poles with her feet than standing over them. 10/10 for coming and out and doing something.

Getting the presentation ready for the 15th March. Don't forget to get your tickets from  This talk is all about the spo...
26/02/2025

Getting the presentation ready for the 15th March.

Don't forget to get your tickets from

This talk is all about the spooky horse.
Why horses spook, what we can do to lessen spooky behaviour, and how we can be more confident in handling spooky horses.

Is there anything anyone wants to know about spooky horses, and I will try and encompass it.

Spring is just occasional showing her head. It won't be long now. It was so nice to see the sun during a long reining se...
25/02/2025

Spring is just occasional showing her head. It won't be long now. It was so nice to see the sun during a long reining session this afternoon.
My diary has really started to fill up with Spring around the corner, March bookings are getting limited, and I am away at the start of April, so I suspect that will fill up fast, too.

Don't forget I am doing a talk about the spooky horse on the 15th March 7pm Chailey. Booking is through .

28yrs old and looking fabulous. Regularly cushings clip today for the gorgeous Jilted. I have the best clients 😋 last we...
24/02/2025

28yrs old and looking fabulous. Regularly cushings clip today for the gorgeous Jilted.
I have the best clients 😋 last week was brownies which were eaten before I got a photo!

24/02/2025

Great example of what can be done with good training. There are many ways to address and train horses but fear is one of the hardest things to overcome as it creates such a strong emotion and good reason why fear should be avoid when training.

A selection of a few of the last weeks activities I didn't get many pictures form many sessions. There has definitely be...
18/02/2025

A selection of a few of the last weeks activities I didn't get many pictures form many sessions. There has definitely been quite a variety of things going on. Clipping, loading, long reining, hacking, TREC practice and ridden lessons.
Thank you to those that have sent pictures over 💞

16/02/2025

These are a great way to spread your routine costs and you get some extra discounts too.


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We are a friendly, 9 vet equine hospital with complete ambulatory and surgical facilities.

15/02/2025
Happy Valentines day, I hope you are all spending it with those that matter ♥️ hug your horse and give them a kiss make ...
14/02/2025

Happy Valentines day, I hope you are all spending it with those that matter ♥️ hug your horse and give them a kiss make the most of every moment.

Spring is slowly starting to show itself. Days like this are miserable. It is cold, muddy and soggy. Then seeing these l...
10/02/2025

Spring is slowly starting to show itself. Days like this are miserable. It is cold, muddy and soggy. Then seeing these little beauties remind you it that it will get warmer and drier. Today even walked the dogs just after 5 and it wasn't dark!
Hang in there people, better days are coming. 💜

10/02/2025

Confidence and trust building obstacle clinics.
I am happy to come to you for these clinic session you just need a suitable space (can be a small field as long as it is dry)
These sessions can be individual, pairs or group sessions (4 or 5).
These sessions can be tailored to you and your horses requirements.
These sessions are aimed at anyone wanting to help improve their relationship with their horse.

If this is some thing you are interested in then drop me a message with rough numbers and your location and we can go from there.

Intelligent Horsemanship Recommended Trainer (IHRT), BHS AI Int Sm and BSc Equine Sports Performance.

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09/02/2025

A well written post to have a read.

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The shame of being soft 🐴

About a decade ago I was hacking out on my newly backed 4yo just outside the yard. He was being extremely lovely and leading the ride. As we approached a tight bend, our neighbour came flying round the corner in her car and had to slam the breaks on to not hit my horse. My horse quite rightly spooked, then said no when I asked him to walk on. I immediately felt the pressure to make him go and started to kick him on, eventually he crept past despite being frightened and me being generally horrible to him. All of this occurred in about 30 seconds, but the neighbour still hung out of her car window and shouted “you need to get a stick on that bloody horse!” All because my 4yo horse had been frightened when she nearly crashed her car into us and then dared to say no when I asked him to go forward.

I felt so much shame about this and so conflicted. Shame that I knew I had been horrible to my horse and it didn’t feel right to me, but also shame that clearly I just wasn’t brave or firm enough and everyone thought I was too soft and ruining my horse. My confidence was in the gutter, I used to cry often when I was riding and I felt absolutely pathetic and useless. I wasn’t pathetic or useless, I was just trying to fit in with people who were not my people and didn’t understand horse behaviour. The only way they knew how to train was by dominating and any query over pain/discomfort was met with eye rolls and comments of “bloody pony patters/tree huggers” etc. 🙄 These people couldn’t help me and they can’t help you.

If this situation were to occur now I would either get off my horse and safely lead him past, or I would ask one of the other riders to give us a lead and I’d have a few choice words for the driver. But it is hard to get to the place mentally when you’re nervous and surrounded by people who shame you for being kind to your horse. As if your frightened horse not jumping to attention when you ask them to go forwards is some cardinal sin.

Its okay to get off, its okay to change the plan, its okay to wait and its okay to not do something at all. Don’t let people make you feel small just because they jump their horse bigger than you or do things you wouldn’t feel confident enough to do. Making horses do things by bullying them has absolutely nothing to do with good horsemanship or understanding behaviour. If you want a good relationship with your horse keep following your gut and find your people. We’re out here I promise.

“You’re going to ruin that horse/letting it walk all over you/needs someone to sort it out” anyone who speaks to you like this is not going to make good choices for you or your horse as the only way they know how to train is by dominating or frightening. There are much safer ways to train horses that don’t involve being horrible to them, we just need to look at things a little differently and let go of the ideologies that have been conditioned into us.

It is okay for your horse to make mistakes, it is okay if you don’t have 100% control over your horse’s every whisker at all times and it is okay to listen to your horse instead of other people.

There is something very empowering in embracing that softness and letting those comments slide off your back. After all I really do love to hug a good tree. 🌳💁🏻‍♀️🐴

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