02/06/2026
When you understand that your dog's brain is making a fast prediction of what might happen, based on previous experiences, you can start to appreciate why the 'the other dog wasn't doing anything' argument doesn't really apply.
It's not only what is happening at this point in time, it is also what has happened before. Contrary to popular belief, dogs don't 'live in the moment', they have memories and expectations based on previous similar events.
That's why your placid dog might turn into a raging beast when they go to the vet. Their brain is predicting something unpleasant, based on previous experience. No amount of tasty treats is going to have an impact on that process - the bigger the concern - the stronger the memory and prediction will be. Our brains and dog's brains are more sensitive to negative experiences than positive ones. it anticipates difficulty before it occurs - sensible given that the primary aim is to be safe. The brain is doing its job prefectly.
In the end, perception is everything.
The answer is to try to work on those predictions.
Photo: Many of the things that we do with dogs have the potential to become negative - it's not our intention of course, but it's perception that matters. My dogs are comfortable being groomed, having their nails trimmed etc but that hasn't happend by accident and it certainly hasn't happened by using force or restraint.