29/09/2023
I feel so privileged to have such a lovely bunch of liveries here at GB
The more I live, the more I learn
The more I learn, the more I realize, the less I know”
- Michel Legrand
I am so relieved that it is becoming less and less acceptable to treat a horse like a servant, a non-sentient being or an object.
The world seems to be waking up and realising that many of the traditional ways of interacting with horses are perhaps not the most respectful or “horse-friendly” option - there are other options that acknowledge each horse and their needs more completely.
For some of us that change has been happening for a long time. For others, it is a massive culture shock and we all need to be aware of that. Individuals accept and adapt to change at different rates because humans are all different - that’s what makes the world such a fascinating place.
It is time to acknowledge and respect differences in the equestrian community. For example, the person who posts photos of their latest competition success or amazing new bit is doing their best for their horse. If you have chosen a different pathway and perhaps see the tension in the horse please acknowledge and accept their “best try” for what it is. If others later choose to join your pathway then please welcome them with open arms and ‘likes' on their FaceBook posts.
I now cringe at photos of what I once thought was an amazing achievement - I don't think I am alone in this?
Please remember that over time you will learn more and the gold standard that you work to today will evolve with your knowledge and experience.
As well as being a coach I run a livery yard. Our lovely liveries represent a broad cross-section of the equestrian community. We have equines ranging from shetlands to warmbloods and owners who range from happy hackers to committed competitors.
Our liveries make their individual choices about how they keep their horse - there are so many choices around hoof care, stabling and turnout, rugging, feeding … the list is almost endless. And that is before we even think about training, bodywork and tack! I see and respect a wide range of horse management approaches.
All of our liveries are at different points in their journey, with different attitudes yet they get on well together. How does this happen!?
Our liveries are united by a love of horses and the joy of being on a supportive yard. They all know that we don't tolerate bullying and that we require them to show respect for others’ choices. As a result, people feel respected, able to be themselves and supported on their personal journey with their horses.
Can we all do the same on social media? Let's respect people finding their own path through the maze of choices and be there to support them as they discover the news of change and realise that their horse is, like them, a unique individual who deserves species-appropriate respect, communication and care.