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Please be careful what advice you are taking from so called dog professionals. The Bucks, Berks and Oxon area seems to h...
06/05/2026

Please be careful what advice you are taking from so called dog professionals. The Bucks, Berks and Oxon area seems to have acquired a influx of dog trainers you really would not want to listen to 😢❤️‍🩹

I just spoke to a lovely owner of a 10-week-old Labrador puppy who is struggling with toilet training—and unfortunately, she’s been given some really concerning advice.

One “trainer” suggested withholding water except at mealtimes. Another said the puppy is being difficult because he’s an “alpha male” trying to dominate.

Let’s be clear:
A 10-week-old puppy is a baby. They are not trying to dominate you, and restricting access to water is not only inappropriate—it can be harmful.

Toilet training takes time, consistency, and understanding. Puppies at this age have very limited bladder control and need frequent opportunities to go outside, along with calm, positive reinforcement when they get it right.

If you’re struggling, please seek guidance from a qualified, evidence-based trainer.

At Minds Alike we are all accredited with the Animal Behaviour and Training Council (ABTC), our advice will always prioritise your dog’s welfare and use kind, effective methods that set both you and your puppy up for success.

There is a lot of outdated and incorrect information still circulating—so please, choose your trainer carefully.
https://www.mindsalikeanimaltraining.com/
https://abtc.org.uk/

This is your sign to get Earth Rated ones, as an expert in Poo Picking 🤣🫠😛🐾 Used Earth Rated for absolute years, couldn’...
01/05/2026

This is your sign to get Earth Rated ones, as an expert in Poo Picking 🤣🫠😛🐾

Used Earth Rated for absolute years, couldn’t find any the other month so had to get some replacement ones. Got Smart Choice ones, let’s just say it wasn’t a smart choice and although they have handles the bags aren’t deep enough and you end up nearly putting your hand in poo 🤦🏼‍♀️🤢🫠. Alas I have more EC ones again now and normality can resume! ✌🏻

We're not nasty, we're not bad, we're not mean.We're just a bit scared or nervous sometimes.All you need to do is give u...
20/03/2026

We're not nasty, we're not bad, we're not mean.
We're just a bit scared or nervous sometimes.
All you need to do is give us some space, and the world feels much less frightening.
When my human asks you to call your dog back, it's not because they think your dog's bad or naughty either.
We just like different things.
And they are just trying to help me feel safe.
Next time you see a dog wearing yellow, will you do something for me?
Just give them a little more space.
It would mean the world to us 💛

20th March

13/03/2026

THE CORRECT USE OF AVERSIVE TOOLS.

(No apologies for posting this again. It’s an important message)

This group and page is here to provide free dog training and behaviour advice that falls within the broad classification 'positive reinforcement based, force free training'.

This means we do not use, nor recommend the use of aversives - but sometimes it can be hard to tell what is aversive and what isn't.

The dictionary definition of aversive is this: "Causing avoidance of a thing, situation, or behaviour by using an unpleasant or punishing stimulus, as in techniques of behaviour modification."

So the following devices/tools/products will fall under that definition:
Prong collars
Choke chains
Anti-pull harnesses that tighten under a dogs armpits
Spray collars (either citronella or just air)
Shock collars
Anti-chew sprays
Invisible e-fence systems
Pet corrector air spray
Rattle bottles/cans
Throw chains
Training Discs

All of these things work by causing fear, or pain, or fear of pain, or sensory discomfort, to the dog. Of course, anyone can mis-use any tool, even a flat collar and leash can be used to cause fear or pain - the point is that the above devices are specifically designed to achieve that.

Similarly, any method that works because it causes the dog to want to avoid something painful or scary is also inappropriate within this group. Some examples of that would be: Teaching a dog to heel by jerking on the collar if they pull. Teaching a dog not to jump up at people by kneeing the dog in the chest when they do.
There are many many more examples, that's just two!

Then there are the things that may seem not to be intentionally aversive or unpleasant, but actually are.

One example would be leaving a new dog or puppy to cry himself to sleep at night in a room on his own. This is often recommended with the idea that we should 'start as we mean to go on', and whilst consistency is very important in training and living with a dog, this method tends to mean a new dog or pup spends the first days or weeks of his life in a new home being very tired, stressed and anxious.

In addition, ignoring a dog howling crying or barking for hours on end is almost impossible for most people to achieve, they will accidentally reward this behaviour because they simply HAVE to return to the room the dog is in eventually, which the dog will take as 'ah, howling works well...' and of course will repeat.

Leaving a dog to howl or bark for hours on end is a very good way to create a separation anxiety problem, which is much much harder to fix than teaching a happy, confident dog to sleep somewhere else! In fact, separation anxiety is one of the top causes of dogs being rehomed or euthanised! Sleeping in people's bedrooms or at the top of the stairs, isn't!

There are several reasons why we are strongly against aversive methods or tools - one of which is that it is simply unkind, and damaging to the relationship with your dog, to use fear or pain or discomfort to get him to do what you want. More importantly perhaps, aversive methods produce very unpredictable results - you don't know before you try them how your dog will react. Maybe a spray collar will stop him barking - but maybe it will make him fearful of things that make a similar sound - maybe it will cause him to redirect his frustration as aggression toward someone or some other dog stood near him - maybe it will cause him to be fearful and then aggressive toward whatever he was barking at!

Finally - using aversives in training means you are much less likely to be thinking about WHY your dog is doing something. The use of aversives is focused on removing or stopping a behaviour, but that behaviour WILL be a symptom of something else, and if you don't treat the symptom, or the root cause of a behaviour, it WILL pop out somewhere else.

For example, the dog who was chewing up the carpet when left, now doesn't chew the carpet because it has anti-chew spray on it. Now he chews the sofa, or the table legs - if you cover all those things, maybe he starts to howl or bark instead - because the chewing was a symptom of anxiety, and that anxiety over being left alone hasn't gone away! Hopefully you can now see why we don't recommend aversives, and why we are pro positive force free training.

Emma Judson
Canine Consultants

05/03/2026

⚠️ Advice for dog walkers around livestock 🐑

Livestock worrying isn't just a risk to animal welfare; it causes significant distress and financial loss to farmers 🧑‍🌾

Loose dogs can negatively impact livestock:

- Physical exertion and heightened distress from attempting to run away 🐑
- The mere presence of a predatory animal can be enough to cause stress 🐶
- Livestock may become injured and suffer death 🤕
- Pregnant ewes can lose their lambs due to stress 🐑

Farmers also suffer consequences:

💵 Costly veterinary bills
🐑 Loss of livestock
🤯 Unnecessary stress

🐕 Responsible dog ownership is crucial to prevent livestock worrying. Always keep dogs under control and on a lead around livestock, even if you believe they are well-trained. Good training can also help prevent dogs from showing predatory behaviour around other animals 🦮

The Rural Crime Taskforce will take positive action with the owners of dogs who worry/attack livestock ❌ Please report all incidents to us for investigation ☎️

19/01/2026
Amen!
16/01/2026

Amen!

It’s OK to pick your small dog up

I see this come up a lot, people worry that “you should never pick a dog up” or “you’re reinforcing fear”.

For many small dogs, being picked up can be a completely appropriate, kind and sensible choice.

Small dogs live in a world where other dogs are physically much bigger than them. A well-meaning large dog, a bouncy adolescent running up can feel overwhelming or genuinely unsafe when you’re tiny. They are also at much more risk in an actual dog attack. If you know your tiny dog will feel scared, picking them dog can reduce stress if faced with genuine threat, they are probably safer being lifted than on the floor

Picking a dog up is not “spoiling” them. It can be management.

If your small dog is already worried, asking them to cope when they’re over threshold doesn’t build confidence. It just teaches them that their feelings aren’t being listened to. Lifting them out of a situation they can’t cope with can actually reduce the need for distance-increasing behaviours like barking or snapping.

The key is how and when you do it.

✔️ Pick up before your dog is panicking
✔️ Use it as a temporary safety strategy, not a way to avoid all exposure forever
✔️ Get them used to being picked up and teach them a cue
✔️ Combine it with longer-term work to build confidence at your dog’s pace

Be aware that other dogs may jump up at you if you pick your dog up, hopefully by that point the other owner has appeared to control their dog!

For some dogs, being picked up is a safe place. For others it isn’t. As always, ‘it depends!’ and the individual dog matters more than blanket rules.

If you’ve never had a tiny vulnerable dog, it may be hard to empathise. Now that I have a tiny dog with awful legs who could be really hurt by a dog jumping on her, I really do get it.

If picking your small dog up helps them feel safer in that moment, you’re not doing anything wrong. You’re responding to the dog in front of you. You may have to learn to ignore comments from other dog owners but your own dogs safely is the priority! ❤️

Another reason to only use a licensed boarder
09/01/2026

Another reason to only use a licensed boarder

A dog sitter headbutted a grieving owner after he was handed his dead pet in a plastic bag. Owen Dempsey was paid to look after a couple's French bulldog while they went away on holiday, having advertised his services on Facebook.
But the husband and wife were ultimately left flying home early after being told in a FaceTime call that their beloved dog had died. The man tasked with caring for three-year-old Tank then turned violent when his owners returned to collect his body, headbutting his victim then repeatedly punching him after asking: "Are you f***ing accusing me of killing your dog?"
Liverpool Magistrates' Court heard today, Wednesday, that Martin Hulse began using Dempsey as a dog sitter in June 2024 after spotting his post on social media. This was initially said to have passed "without any issue", with "no reason to suggest that he was mistreating the dogs".
Angela Conlan, prosecuting, outlined how this led to Mr Hulse and his wife Julie booking for their five dogs to stay with Dempsey, of Park Avenue in Fazakerley, for a 10-day period, beginning on August 28 that year, as they went abroad on holiday. However, on September 8, they received a FaceTime call from the 36-year-old defendant and his partner Rachel informing them that Tank had died.
While the French bulldog had undergone a "routine operation" six weeks earlier, he was said to have "seemed fine" prior to being left in Dempsey's care, with the owners having "no reason to be concerned about him being looked after by Owen". They then brought their return flight, scheduled for September 10, forward to that evening, asking for their pet to be kept in a freezer until they could collect him.
Attending the address at around 7.30am on September 9, having returned to the UK late the previous night, Mrs Dempsey was said to have handed Tank over to Mrs Hulse in a plastic bag. While she was "adamant he had been put in the freezer", his body was described as "not cold" and "starting to smell really badly".
Dempsey then walked down the stairs and "appeared angry", asking "are you f***ing accusing me of killing your dog?". He was then reported to have headbutted Mr Hulse to the side of the face before "throwing a couple of punches", connecting with his head and arms.
The complainant fell backwards into the living room as a result of these blows, at which stage Dempsey "continued to assault him" before Mr Hulse managed to push him away. His assailant then allegedly told him "I'm not gonna hit you again because you're an older bloke" before "running upstairs", at which stage the couple left and contacted the police.
Dempsey was found guilty of assault in his absence following a trial. However, he admitted breaching a community order, imposed in September last year in relation to operating as an unlicensed dog boarder.
While he successfully completed a 12-week curfew as part of this sentence, he failed to attend appointments with the Probation Service on eight occasions without reasonable excuse. A probation officer told the court that he was "not seeming remorseful of his actions or appearing willing to change his ways".
Dempsey has previous convictions for assault and an offence of affray in Poland, as well as receiving 27 months in prison for causing serious injury by dangerous driving in 2020.
Today, he was jailed for 16 weeks.

Please share to get Monty home 🙏🏻 🐾
05/01/2026

Please share to get Monty home 🙏🏻 🐾

“My Monty hasn’t been seen since Sunday, 21st December 2025, he went missing in Kingswood, High Wycombe, Buckinghamshire and we are still desperately searching for him.

If you have any information at all, please get in touch: 07889254844”

Or call Thames Valley Police on 101 or Crime Stoppers anonymously on 0800555111

Doglost website information:
Name: Monty
Dog ID: 201373
Gender: Male
Breed:
Age: Adult
Colour: Lemon roan
Marks/Scars: Heart shaped white hair on forehead
Microchip: Yes
Date : 21 December 2025
Where Lost: Kingswood, ,
Postcode: HP13
Email: [email protected]
Ref: 201373
Monty’s Doglost page: https://www.doglost.co.uk/dog/201373

🙏 Please keep looking — especially locally.
If you live in or around the woodland areas, please:
➡️ Check CCTV, doorbell and security cameras (even backdated footage)
➡️ Check garden sheds, garages, outbuildings and enclosed gardens
➡️ Keep an eye out when driving or walking
Even the smallest sighting or detail could help bring him home.

“If someone has taken Monty in thinking he was lost, please contact me.
He is my whole world, and I’m heartbroken without him.
No questions asked. Reward will be paid. Please bring him home 💔”

Family post: https://www.facebook.com/share/p/14W43yy5Ze1/?mibextid=wwXIfr

22/11/2025

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