26/08/2025
❓ The right time to get another pet ❓
This is a topic that comes up a lot (mostly to do with getting another dog after loosing a dog but could be any companion animal, I will use a dog in this example).
There is no right or wrong! Everyone is different. Even the same person at a different time of life may answer differently.
🩶 Do you live alone or are there others in the home/ family who feel differently to you?
🩶 Are there any other animals at home?
🩶 Are you ready for new commitment and a whole new routine?
🩶 Was the dog that has died a therapy or service dog?
🩶 Are you able to emotionally build a new relationship?
🩶 Do you wish an older or younger dog?
🩶 Are you wanting to rescue a dog?
A new puppy for instance can be hard work and tiring. A rescue may need more patience whilst they adjust to their new home. Both require hard work and commitment. The other family members or pets may bond at a different level or timeframe.
A new pet also could bring lots of joy. A new relationship will develop. A young happy puppy or a rescue dog who has settled well can be very rewarding. You will know if you feel ready. I say listen to your gut feeling.
It’s definitely not too disrespectful to the dog that has died to get another. Some people can’t be without the love and reward a dog, in this instance, can give. But if you don’t feel ready (gut feeling) I think it’s probably worth waiting a little longer to see how you feel in a couple of months. Ultimately you don’t want to give a rescue dog back or rehome a puppy if you can’t bond or it’s not working for any reason. That’s not fair on yourself or the dog.
What about going seeing another dog? Walk a friends dog, visit the local park and see the others? What about choosing a different animal to spend time with? A friends cat? A horse at the local stables? Volunteer at a local shelter to help care for animals?
Talk things through with friends and family. Get in touch with a pet bereavement specialist. Ask yourself lots of questions and go with what feels right for you at the time.
Be kind on yourself there is no one way to do anything 🩶