Hayley Chilver Equestrian Coach

Hayley Chilver Equestrian Coach Ba(hons)
BHS Accredited Coach, Stage 4, RDAI, UKCC. Highly experienced trainer. Coaching is one of my loves and vocation.

I have been a professional competition rider, Chief Instructor, Lecturer in Equine Studies & Educator of Instructors & much more !

Had to share this after seeing it on Naomi Jaffa 's post . Sounds like it was a great day . I am not advocating that we ...
02/06/2026

Had to share this after seeing it on Naomi Jaffa 's post .
Sounds like it was a great day .
I am not advocating that we all whip off our bridles and try this! But it is 'food for thought' and the future.
As a child / teenager I thought nothing of getting on ponies in the field, in a head collar and riding around ba****ck . It was just natural, I don't remember falling off, or losing control and the ponies moved around happily .
My parents probably didn't know , but may have been ok with it 🤣 that said it's not something I would advise 🤣🤣 for obvious health and safety reasons .. ( and also thinking of the pony or horse which should always come first).
If you are interested in going ' bridleless much research and training needs to take place first 🐴🥰

What I saw at the weekend gives me so much hope for the future of our sport.

The first British bridleless competition saw riders competing in both dressage and showjumping completely without a bridle. I urge you to seek out the footage of these tests and rounds, but more importantly, sit down and really watch what these horses and riders are doing.

This is what our sport should be about.

True connection that cannot be masked, forced or falsified with two reins, a bigger bit or the latest piece of “magic” equipment.

Horses afforded the freedom to move their head, neck, jaw, tongue…unrestricted, and still performing. Not just performing, but performing comfortably and happily.

Every single one of these riders deserves our respect. Whilst so much attention is given to those who can only achieve these things with metal, leather and restriction, these riders are achieving harmony through nothing but training, patience and understanding.

Does everyone need to ride bridleless to prove that? No, of course not. But the amount to be learned from watching these horses, and how they respond is significant.

There is so much negativity in the equestrian world, and it isn’t unfounded. There is a lot not to like, a lot to be angry about, and a lot that needs to change.

But this felt like a breath of fresh air.

A clear sign that there are riders out there who can and will do it differently, even if they don’t get the same spotlight as the more “conventional” combinations.

These are the riders we need to champion, these are the riders we need to celebrate, because sometimes it’s hard to believe that performance sport and prioritising welfare can coexist.

But here it is, living proof and my goodness, is it magical.

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Photo of the wonderfully talented Georgie Wood Equestrian Performance, taken by Ella Dockery Photography.

My next Clinic at World Horse Welfare Hall Farm   is on Saturday 13th June. Poles on the ground , followed by jumping a ...
01/06/2026

My next Clinic at World Horse Welfare Hall Farm is on Saturday 13th June.
Poles on the ground , followed by jumping a course ( height increasing throughout the day) .
Contact Sue Hodgkin's at WHW to book a slot . £25 per person. Small groups , focusing on having fun, improving and enjoying the camaraderie! All levels welcome, you will be allocated a space with riders , ponies or horses of a similar level.
Collage created for me by Steve Wood Photographer .

01/06/2026

Great session this morning Carlton House Equestrian Centre . Great new white barriers, which look fab. Arena graded well and a super array of fences up in the jumping arena. More exciting things to come ! El Harris 😍

Tuesday 9th June Broads Equestrian Centre - Official . I will be doing a small group at 10am working on dressage of any ...
28/05/2026

Tuesday 9th June Broads Equestrian Centre - Official . I will be doing a small group at 10am working on dressage of any level.
Private slots or shared also available.
Contact me to discuss/ book 🐴🤩

I saw this on Clare Pettitt 's page and wanted to share ❤️
17/05/2026

I saw this on Clare Pettitt 's page and wanted to share ❤️

Not because the lion would lack words.
But because his entire world — his experience of reality itself — is fundamentally different from ours.
I often think about this sentence when I work with horses.
Modern humans tend to believe that language is the highest form of intelligence. We assume that if an animal cannot explain itself in words, then its inner world must somehow be simpler, smaller, or less meaningful.
But horses remind us every single day how limited that assumption really is.
A horse does not experience the world through abstract concepts, philosophy, politics, status, or social media.
It experiences rhythm.
Presence.
Tension.
Energy.
Safety.
Movement.
Attention.
Trust.
A horse reads what we often cannot even perceive in ourselves.
The slightest change in breathing.
The smallest hesitation.
The shift of balance before movement even begins.
The emotional state hidden beneath the mask of human language.
That is why true horsemanship can never be reduced to technique alone.
You can learn every aid.
You can memorize every training scale.
You can study biomechanics for decades.
And still never truly communicate with a horse.
Because real communication with horses does not happen primarily through commands.
It happens through participation in their world.
This is where Wittgenstein becomes so fascinating.
He believed that understanding is not simply about translating words. Understanding depends on sharing a “form of life” — a common lived reality.
And horses live in a radically different reality from ours.
They do not think in human narratives of success and failure.
They do not care about titles.
They do not care about reputation.
They do not lie.
They do not flatter.
They do not pretend.
They respond to what is actually there.
That is why horses expose us so completely.

08/05/2026

A friend is looking to loan a horse, it would be a wonderful home. Experienced lady near Beccles. Needs to be good to hack alone and in company. Would like to do some dressage, happy to start at intro . Doesn't need to jump. Contact me with ideas . Thanks 🙏

Dark Horse Blue 'sticky seat' riding tights. Suze L ...large 14 or small 16 .£10
06/05/2026

Dark Horse Blue 'sticky seat' riding tights. Suze L ...large 14 or small 16 .£10

Two spaces remaining on Wednesday 27th May I have availability for Showjumping sessions in the morning. At Carlton House...
06/05/2026

Two spaces remaining on
Wednesday 27th May I have availability for Showjumping sessions in the morning. At Carlton House Equestrian Centre .
11am group 70/80cms.
Can do a pole /small jump session before this and bigger one after . Register your interest and I will organise.
Small groups, Private or shared. Contact me to discuss/ book. All levels welcome.Groups are £28 .pp.

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