Bits and Behaviour

Bits and Behaviour Accredited bit fitter and equine behavioural consultant based in Newmarket, Suffolk. A passion for your horse's happiness!
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I spent 25 years working in various disciplines of the horse industry including racing, polo, dressage, eventing, and managing private yards, before training as a bit fitter in 2019. Everything I do is geared towards making horses as happy as they can possibly be.

20/08/2026
The first of my two part article, Listening to the Nervous System, will be published in September's issue of Happy Track...
19/08/2026

The first of my two part article, Listening to the Nervous System, will be published in September's issue of Happy Trackin' Magazine! Available now for pre-order 😊

What happens when we stop looking at a horse's behaviour as something we need to fix, and instead start asking what the horse is actually experiencing?

In Part 1, I talk about how understanding the nervous system can change the way we interpret our horses' behaviour; from seemingly simple moments of uncertainty, to the way stress can build through trigger stacking and eventually push a horse over threshold.

Most importantly, we look at why sometimes the most helpful thing we can do isn't to ask the horse to try harder or move on, but simply to wait and give their nervous system time to process what they're experiencing.

This is something that fundamentally changed the way I work with horses, and I hope it gives you a different perspective on some of the behaviours you see in your own horse.

Issue 11 is available for pre-order!

If you have subscribed for prints, you do not need to pre-order ☺️

www.happytrackinmagazine.com

05/08/2026

💥I'm coming to the PE11 area on the 14th of August, if you're looking for a bit fitting or behavioural consultation please do get in touch and get 50% off travel fees! 💥

A huge thank you to everyone who attended the third session in the Talking Horse series this morning! Helen and I really...
01/08/2026

A huge thank you to everyone who attended the third session in the Talking Horse series this morning!

Helen and I really enjoyed the more intimate and hands on format of today's event and really hope you did too. There were some really interesting points of discussion as well as some eye opening experiences of what it's like to "Feel Like a Horse"!

For those of you who were unable to attend we are hoping to run a repeat of this session in a few weeks time. If you'd like to register your interest please comment below and myself or Helen will be in touch with more details.

Sometimes the universe sends you exactly what you need, and that was an incredible weekend at the first UK clinic with E...
19/07/2026

Sometimes the universe sends you exactly what you need, and that was an incredible weekend at the first UK clinic with Emotional Horsemanship by Lockie Phillips. I met some wonderful humans and learned a lot. So lovely to see what horsemanship can be when you take the ego completely out of the room. So much compassion and empathy on display, it gives me refreshed hope for the future!
Am now absolutely frazzled but very happy 😊

04/05/2026

I'm coming to the IP12 area this Friday 8th of May if anyone would like an appointment with 50% off travel fees!

Are you curious about trying bitless but don't know where to start? 🐴💛As a dedicated horse bit fitter and behaviourist—a...
27/04/2026

Are you curious about trying bitless but don't know where to start? 🐴💛

As a dedicated horse bit fitter and behaviourist—and someone who has been riding bitless for years—I’m thrilled to announce a new service to help you and your horse achieve greater comfort and connection.

🎉 Now Offering: Bitless Bridle Fittings 🎉

Explore a variety of bitless bridle types in a single session! This means you can find the perfect option for you and your horse before making a purchase.

✨ New: Bitless Noseband Fitting ✨

For those who want to explore bitless riding without committing to a full bridle fitting or purchasing a whole new bridle, this session is the perfect option. You’ll get to try a variety of bitless noseband styles—including side pulls, hackamores, and scawbrigs—that can be attached to your own bridle.

This session offers a flexible and affordable way to find what works best for you and your horse, without the need for a major investment. (Not suitable for Micklem or similar bridles)

✨ New: Bitless Taster Sessions ✨

You can now add a bitless taster session to your standard bit fitting appointment! These taster sessions let you try one or two bitless options that can be fitted to your current bridle, so you can experience how your horse responds without needing to invest upfront. (Not suitable for Micklem or similar bridles)

With years of experience riding bitless, I can guide you through the transition smoothly, offering support and advice to help you and your horse adjust with confidence. 🐎

📅 Book Your Appointment Today!
Spaces are limited, so get in touch to schedule your fitting or taster session.

Let’s work together to ensure your horse’s comfort and your peace of mind. ❤️

For the people who feel like they’re doing horses… differentlyIf you’ve ever sat there thinking“this doesn’t feel right”...
09/04/2026

For the people who feel like they’re doing horses… differently

If you’ve ever sat there thinking
“this doesn’t feel right”… but been told to push through anyway, you’re not the only one.

If you’ve questioned advice, methods, or the way horses are spoken about… and felt like the odd one out for it, you’re not the only one.

And if you’ve looked at your horse and known, deep down, that their behaviour means something more than “naughty” or “difficult”… you’re exactly who I work with.

Because I don’t believe in training that overrides the horse to get results.

I work with behaviour as communication, not something to shut down, but something to understand.

Where more traditional approaches might focus on control, compliance, or “fixing” what you can see…
I focus on what’s underneath:
– The why behind your horse’s behaviour
– Their emotional state and nervous system
– Where things feel unsafe, confusing, or overwhelming for them
– And how we can change that at the root

This isn’t about forcing better behaviour.
It’s about creating a horse who no longer needs to struggle in the first place.

And just as importantly, it’s about supporting you.
Because going against the grain in the horse world can feel isolating.
It can make you doubt yourself.
It can make you feel like you’re the problem.
You’re not.
You’re paying attention.

What you can expect from working with me:
– A space where your concerns are taken seriously
– Thoughtful, individual support, not a one-size-fits-all approach
– Practical ways to understand and respond to your horse
– Lasting change built on trust, not pressure
You don’t have to choose between doing what feels right and getting results.

If you’re ready to explore a different way, I’m here.

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