17/06/2025
๐ฎโ๐จ๐ตโ๐ซ๐ซจI don't usually post about this but i don't think I'm alone......๐ฎโ๐จ๐ตโ๐ซ๐ซจ
Like many other people I struggle with my mental health, sometimes in a big way and one of the biggest things I struggle with that triggers me is overwhelm. One of the biggest things that arrived in my life that caused huge overwhelm was the arrival of a crazy ginger cocker puppy in my life.
I had put over a year's worth of planning onto getting Kez and I had also gone into it knowing what he could be like (for those of you who aren't aware ginger animals are known for being a bit crazy and I wanted high drive working stock as he was to be a working sports dog) and wanted to safeguard against that. I was prepared, I had planned life out and what it was going to look like etc etc.
However the days after we bought Kez home, I cried................... ALOT!!!
Now your probably thinking he was a nightmare chewing furniture, chasing the cat and toiletting everywhere...........Nope he was great.
So why did I find it so hard?
Honestly I think it was just a big life shift even if he wasn't a nightmare puppy, the pressure of wanting him to be happy, confident, well rounded, well behaved and not a menace to society and not with anxiety issues etc like Tilly suffered with. All of this and to be done as early as possible and with some knowledge of training dogs.
All of this while working (before I started dog training) at the same time and constantly wondering if I was doing the right things, in the right order or the right way with not really much helpful knowledge.
We did puppy classes but it was the questions and things in-between that caused stress, and with so many people in class and a class straight after it was often hard to see my trainer.
Puppy blues is often overlooked and once the excitement of the arrival has gone down and your faced with this creature you have to build a bond with (which doesn't always come straight away and that's fine),and adapt your life to all whilst making sure you teach them how to behave in a world they don't understand is a lot.
All the things you are thinking or feeling in the start with your puppy are completely normal and your not the only one. Seeking help and communities with like minded people can be a big help.
So with that in mind, comment below if you ever had moment of overwhelm and wondering if you made a mistake with your new puppy.
I'm hoping I'm not the only one here ๐คฃ