27/02/2024
Hey everyone π
Please take a read and let me help you see things from a different perspective π
Sometimes on our dog owning journey we only know it to have two sides, itβs either black or white. This can be down to what we see, what we learn, what is being taught, what we understand.
Your dog is good or bad, your dog is confident or fearful. You are doing a good job at training your dog. You are doing a bad job at training your dog. You are doing too much for your dog. You are not doing enough for your dog. You are feeding the wrong food. You are feeding the right food.
A mixture of the two is not possible and you never view the life with the grey areas in between.
You can see things like situations, behaviours, walks, vet visits and many other things to only have positive and negative characteristics. Looking at this dog owning journey this way makes it easier for us.
Photographers, on the other hand, see black and white as colors that deliver meaning to their photos giving it a mysterious and real touch both at the same time.
However, even though a black-white perspective does make it easier to come up with a conclusion about everything, it causes us to miss the smaller things that can effect our journeys with our dogs such as our emotions and how we see, deal and cope and it doesnβt then help reveal the things that can show you the way and to really change that journey. Looking at all the aspects will teach us to learn new ways to go through this dog owning journey, let go of expectations that can cause us to live with constant disappointment, and pushes us to be the best version of ourselves instead of setting up a limit on what we can and cannot do with our dogs and building that relationship.
Thinking our dog owning experience only has either a perfect or a terrible side will not allow us to try and see if there is more to what presents itself. We should never limit ourselves because then, we will never be able to enjoy the unexpected and the undiscovered grey areas of a dog owning journey.
Learning and growing together as a team and all those smaller grey areas could be the things that can change and transform and help you and your dog truly embrace life together π
Come and join my page and start to see things through a new lense π
My new support group and coaching will be available in March π