07/08/2026
Misty has been showing some signs of pain over the last week, her gait has been ‘off’, her right hip has seemed stiff, she’s been holding her head lower and she’s just looked absolutely miserable. I’ve spoke to her vets and have sent some videos of her gait off to them for their opinion before I arrange to take her in.
She’s been playing, jumping onto my bed, she jumped in and out of the car today, but she still just hasn’t seemed her usual self.
Because of this we’ve just been doing slow on lead walks and mostly in quiet areas, avoiding busy areas where there are usually a lot of dogs, because pain can massively increase reactions, even in dogs that aren’t usually reactive, but particularly in dogs that are.
Misty’s triggers tend to be:
On lead dogs facing her
Dogs running quickly past her in close proximity.
Dogs that “come out of nowhere” facing her.
Dogs that she perceives as being a little over the top.
Today despite her showing quite a few signs that she is experiencing some kind pain, we walked past two on lead dogs that were facing her.
A young spaniel charged at her, ran right past her twice, recalled back to his owners and then came towards us again.
A German shepherd came from behind a tree facing her.
And then we stopped and chatted to someone with a border collie who was doing a fantastic job at herding his humans, something that Misty would’ve usually of found ‘too much’.
All of this without a single reactions, whilst potentially being in pain, and without using food too.
Not so long ago Misty would’ve reacted to every single one of these dogs, she would’ve lunged, barked, snarled, bared her teeth, and done a few back flips whilst she was at it.
There’s a huge misconception that if we don’t use tools to correct our dogs reactivity then we must use a lot of treats and distractions.
I’ve been on both sides, I’ve tried both. I used to try to correct Misty’s behaviour, and I also used to try to distract her from every dog we would see. But neither of these helped, in fact they made things worse.
Whilst sometimes I think helping a dog out with food or toys in certain situations can be useful, using food to distract from every single dog they see, or don’t see isn’t going to decrease your dogs reactivity.
But time, patience, trust and understanding will.
Reactivity can take time to work through, particularly in cases like Misty where there have been multiple traumatic incidents surrounding other dogs from a young age.
I’ve been working on Misty’s reactivity for more than 5 years, and I made a lot of mistakes during that time, which made our journey take even longer.
I needed to learn to be patient with Misty, feeling frustrated with her because she was simply showing her emotions in the only way she knew how didn’t help either of us. Which takes me to trust.
With me feeling frustrated with her, she mirrored that, and felt frustrated too. It’s hard to trust eachother when you’re both constantly frustrated with eachother.
I also struggled to trust her after the vet suggested we muzzled her for future vet visits, and with her dog reactivity I assumed she was aggressive, dangerous and couldn’t be trusted at all.
And because I tried to correct her behaviours, forcing her to sit as dogs walked past us, telling her off, trying to sound more ‘dominant’ by making my voice deeper. She didn’t trust me either.
(Going back to time, trust took us both time to rebuild from scratch).
To be able to trust each other again, I needed to understand her.
I needed to understand her emotional, social and biological needs.
Why does she feel the way she does around other dogs? Why is she amazing with some dogs and not with others? How can I help her to have a more fulfilling life safely to meet her biological needs?
When all these pieces start to come together, that’s when you will notice a huge change in your dog’s emotions and behaviours.
Not through distractions, but through time, patience, trust and understanding.
Without these, your dog’s reactivity may become suppressed, but will it really resolve in the long term?