01/06/2026
Dogs are brilliant communicators, but as humans, we’re often not very good at listening. 🐾
Dogs give us lots of small signals to tell us whether they’re uncomfortable, unsure, overwhelmed, or even when they simply want something. The important thing to remember is that communication is individual to every dog and every relationship.
We often talk about the ladder of communication when looking at canine body language, and it can be a really useful starting point for recognising when a dog may need more space or may be feeling uncomfortable and I reference it a lot.
However, it’s also important to remember that body language isn’t always black and white.
For example, in this video Nico gives me small licks, which could be interpreted as him wanting space or wanting me to stop fussing him. But when I stop, he paws me for more affection and asks for more. In this context, those licks may not be about discomfort at all — they may simply be part of him enjoying the interaction and engaging with me.
This is why getting to know your dog as an individual is so important. ❤️
It can feel confusing at times because communication isn’t always straightforward, but the more you observe your dog, the more you’ll start to recognise their own little quirks, preferences, and ways of communicating.
One really helpful tip is using consent-based strokes:
• Fuss your dog for 3–5 seconds
• Then pause
• See what they choose to do next
If they ask for more, you can continue. If they move away or disengage, you know to give them space.
This gives dogs the opportunity to communicate clearly and helps us become better listeners.
With all animals, if you listen… they will talk. 🐶