02/01/2026
It’s joyful to watch our pups interact with the world, and we can teach our pups to feel happy and confident about new people, dogs, objects and experiences by having a variety of encounters, and making each one safe and enjoyable😊 .
It’s important not to push new things onto our pups. Giving pups choice really helps build trust and confidence as they know you won’t force them into things they’re not sure about. So if they try to move away, freeze, or start to tremble for example (see yesterday’s post for more info about body language), just move them away somewhere they feel more comfortable and next time, make the environment less intense for them.
Up to 16-20 weeks of age in particular, they are soaking up information about the world and how great/otherwise it is. What they learn during this time is what lasts them a lifetime, so don’t drag them up to a bunch of dogs to “socialise” or allow people to invade their space, which could be really scary, instead give them space from the new thing to give them chance to see, smell and hear it from a distance, and let them get closer if they want to.
Here’s a few examples:
• Sit somewhere with your pup that you can watch the world go by, at a distance. This can be done from inside the car, or carrying them if they’re not yet fully vaccinated. When you see something new or potentially scary, like another dog or someone on a bike or scooter, give them a treat.
• Follow another dog at a distance. That way your pup gets the chance to see and scent another dog without having to get too close for comfort.
• Avoid having them on a tight lead, so they can slow down, stop or move away if they want to.
We can teach them that new things are great by pairing them with something nice like a tasty treat or game. The order of events is really important – pup must notice the new thing first, and then feeding or play begins. When the new thing goes away, the feeding or play can stop.
Think about the things you want your dogs to feel confident around, you could even make a list and mark them off, for example:
• People – tall, short, old, young, bald, hairy, facial hair, different clothing, using sticks or wheelchairs…
• Animals – cats, birds, other dogs…
• Situations – passing a school, getting in the car, going to the vets, going up stairs, putting a harness on
• Objects – lawnmower, cars, feathers (I used to walk a dog who was scared of feathers!)
• Surfaces – grass, gravel, floorboards, bath,
• Noises – thunder, fireworks, hoover, hairdryer, doorbell, building work, babies, shouting, laughing
Introducing your pup to other dogs can be great if done in the right way. Here’s some tips:
• If going to a puppy playgroup, make sure the class size is small and the pups are matched in size and temperament.
• Supervised play with a calm, puppy-friendly adult dog can be a great experience for a pup, as can supervised play with another pup one to one.
• Avoid areas where there’s lots of dogs running around, this is unlikely to be the best environment to teach your pup how to interact with other dogs, especially if they get bumped and frightened, or any of the other dogs are too boisterous.
• Introductions to new dogs should be made calmly, on-lead to start with so they can be easily separated if needs be.
• Keep it short. Puppies can get overexcited easily as well as getting tired quickly, so their behaviour can become overwhelming to others, such as nipping, pinning down, or body slamming.
The Dog’s Trust have produced a fantastic free resource to help puppies get used to different noises, including a pdf of how it works, and recordings of different sounds to use, which is available here https://www.dogstrust.org.uk/dog-advice/understanding-your-dog/sound-therapy-for-pets.
In a nutshell, this process is about hearing or seeing things at a distance, and gradually building up the intensity, whilst using things they love to make the process as pleasurable as possible – for you and your pup, so that they have good associations with all these new things 🐶🐾.
And if you'd like to learn more by coming to the next group sessions, please get in touch.