
17/08/2025
What if rather than beginning with the question ‘How do I stop my dog from doing X?’,/‘How can I make my dog do X?’ people started with the question ‘I wonder why my dog is doing/won’t do X?’
All behaviour happens for a reason and being curious about the function of our dogs’ behaviour is the best way that we can begin to support them when they need it most.
Consider a dog who refuses to get in the car, for example. Rather than seeing that dog as 'stubborn', we ought to consider that they might get travel sick. Or that it could be uncomfortable for them to jump up into the car. Or that perhaps they had a negative experience last time they travelled in the car.
Consider a dog who destroys things in the home. Rather than seeing that dog as 'naughty', we ought to consider that they might be bored. Or that they might be experiencing discomfort and are looking for ways to soothe themselves (by chewing things up, for example). Or that behaviours like these are the only way that they can get your attention.
There are a huge number of possibilities for any one behaviour, and leaving ourselves open to the response, by asking the question 'Why?', is likely to lead to much more successful outcomes for both you and your dog rather than simply trying to stop or induce a behaviour without considering why it may or may not be occurring in the first place.
Dogs are doing their very best, every day, with the information available to them at any given time in our human-centric world. If we want their behaviour to change in some way then we need to consider what we can do to ensure that our dogs are able to succeed.
If you need help with any aspect of your dog’s behaviour, then get in touch with Planet Dog today.