29/07/2025
đž Connection isnât spoken. Itâs felt.
Do you ever sense that your dog is trying to tell you something, but you just canât quite put your finger on it?
We love our dogs deeply, but we often feel there is a void, something missing along with a wish to truly understand whatâs going on for them.
We wonder if weâre getting it 'right', we chase the 'why', beat ourselves up for 'missing something' and question if our feelings and impressions are just wishful thinking.
Our little Boston Terrier, Cosmo, now in spirit, used to hesitate about going on walks.
Every time we reached for his collar, heâd run away and sit on a bed.
We'd spend several minutes following him around the house trying to get his collar on.
And once outside, heâd walk behind our legs, not really engaging with the environment and seemingly wanting to 'get it done'.
It broke my heart.
As his mum and guardian, I wanted him to feel safe, to feel included, and that we were doing the best for him.
I knew deep down that it wasnât about training or changing him. It was about listening to how he was feeling.
So, I slowed down. I paused. And connected with Cosmo.
He shared that he felt like he was 'being walked' rather than sharing a walk, an experience, with us together.
There was a sense of disconnect.
So, we listened and honoured his message.
From them on, we told him where we were going and for how long and that he could choose to come or stay home.
For the first time ever, when we produced his collar, he stood by the front door ready to go out! This didn't just happen once, it happened time and time again. Some days choosing to come, other days, choosing to stay home.
Not only that, he started to really connect with the environment when out. Sometimes running ahead, sniffing, rolling, basically being more 'dog'!
That simple act of listening, feeling and honouring his feelings with NO pressure, re-connected us. Not trying to fix him, just listening and respecting what he needed.
Connection isnât about perfect behaviours or guessing right.
Itâs about creating a space where our dogs feel safe to share their feelings, supported, loved, and truly understood.
If youâve ever felt that ache inside, wanting to deepen your bond, to better support your dog, but unsure if youâre hearing them, know youâre not alone.
And sometimes, all it takes is learning how to slow down, quiet the noise, and truly listen.
Because beneath every hesitation or silent moment, thereâs a need to be seen, heard, and loved.
⨠Have you had a moment where you felt your dog was trying to tell you something but you werenât sure what? Or maybe youâve wondered how to really listen to what they need?
Iâd love to hear your story. Share in the comments or send me a message. Letâs start a conversation about those little moments of connection and understanding. đŹđž