13/08/2025
Talia – the dog who changed everything for me.
She was the reason I made a promise to myself - I will only ever use kind, compassionate training methods with every dog I meet.
Talia came into my life from Woodgreen Animal Shelter, a stunning, long-coated, 18-month-old German Shepherd with hip dysplasia and a backstory that, sadly, is all too common in rescue.
It was love at first sight. 😍 But our bond definitely didn’t form instantly. I thought I was doing the right thing by taking her to lots of busy training classes straight away. In reality, she’d just been uprooted to a new home, was completely overwhelmed and I knew nothing about decompression, the importance of sleep, nutrition, routines, enrichment, safe spaces, or how to help her relax and feel safe.
Because of her breed, I felt an extra responsibility, so I pushed to “train, train, train.” The classes only made things worse. She became more stressed, her behaviour was labelled “naughty,” and the advice I received was to “correct” her. That never felt right. She would bark endlessly, leap around, and I felt so embarrassed, but deep down, I knew I’d never follow the harsh methods being suggested.
So, I stopped, I left the classes and started to study canine behaviour and training methods myself.
I still made plenty of mistakes, but little by little, I learned how to understand her needs. Once she felt safe and knew I would advocate for her, the barking and leaping stopped. She became calm, confident and content. She came everywhere with me, to work, on dog-sitting jobs, into town, on walks with friends’ dogs whilst feeling happy, calm and relaxed.
Talia became my heart dog, the most special companion I’ve ever had. She was the turning point that set me on the path to study with some of the best trainers and course providers. I earned my first qualification 10 years ago and to this day I have never, and will never, use unkind methods or tools. Every dog deserves to be understood, supported and trained with kindness. 🐶🐾❤️
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