23/10/2026
When your dog reacts, that’s NOT the time to try and fix everything.
When your dog is already barking, lunging or completely overwhelmed, they’re not in the best place to learn.
Their emotions are taking over, and asking them to listen, focus or behave differently in that moment can be incredibly difficult.
Instead of focusing on stopping the reaction, focus on helping your dog feel safe.
Create distance.
Reduce the pressure.
Help them move away from the situation.
Give them time to decompress.
You don’t need to turn every reaction into a training session.
Sometimes, the biggest win is simply getting your dog out of a situation they’re struggling to cope with.
Remember, you can’t teach a dog to feel safe by making them stay in a situation that feels unsafe.
Confidence comes before obedience.
And sometimes, the kindest thing you can do is stop trying to fix the behaviour and start listening to what your dog is telling you.
Need help understanding your dog’s reactivity?
At Positive Canine Behaviour, I help dogs and their owners understand the why behind the behaviour and build a plan that works for them, using a calm, positive and force-free approach.
Get in touch to find out how I can help you and your dog.